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Those of us with- narcissistic parents- do you attract narcissist friends?
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 551041" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>WELLLLLLLLLLLL enough about ME ..........what do YOU think about me? Narcissist....? I ....well ME for instance,,,,,myself.....can ONLY speak about me. </p><p></p><p>I believe that we find attractions in our adult life to either things that are familiar to us, or things that are POLAR opposits to us. It just depends on our brains, our logic, our surroundings, our thought processes at the time, our choices, our consequences, our abilities, and.....our mapping inside our minds. </p><p></p><p>It may not be so much that you are attracted to them or them to you - but what if it just seems 'normal' in your life to have that type of thinking in your life - and without it - as RA stated - a piece of your pie is missing?? </p><p></p><p>Personally? I can attest to the pie theory through therapy - I changed a lot of things from my past that I did take into my adulthood and was raising my children in like-so fashion. It wasn't "heritage" it was going to be hermit-ing. When I realized I did NOT like where I was, WHO I'd become, the people that I'd chosen to have around me? I did something about it - and it's never EVER too late. </p><p></p><p>Matter of fact - all the people that I had in my life when Dude was a baby are almost nearly dead from some type of abuse. Even their children are now third generation drug addicts - MY son - while not the cream of the crop decision wise -is not a drug addict. </p><p></p><p>So your choices to make CHANGES in your life at ANY TIME - ARE worthy of review - whenever you are not satisfied with the current results. </p><p></p><p>DO SOMETHING ABOUT THEM......don't just wonder for another 10 years if this is as GOOD AS IT GETS.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 551041, member: 4964"] WELLLLLLLLLLLL enough about ME ..........what do YOU think about me? Narcissist....? I ....well ME for instance,,,,,myself.....can ONLY speak about me. I believe that we find attractions in our adult life to either things that are familiar to us, or things that are POLAR opposits to us. It just depends on our brains, our logic, our surroundings, our thought processes at the time, our choices, our consequences, our abilities, and.....our mapping inside our minds. It may not be so much that you are attracted to them or them to you - but what if it just seems 'normal' in your life to have that type of thinking in your life - and without it - as RA stated - a piece of your pie is missing?? Personally? I can attest to the pie theory through therapy - I changed a lot of things from my past that I did take into my adulthood and was raising my children in like-so fashion. It wasn't "heritage" it was going to be hermit-ing. When I realized I did NOT like where I was, WHO I'd become, the people that I'd chosen to have around me? I did something about it - and it's never EVER too late. Matter of fact - all the people that I had in my life when Dude was a baby are almost nearly dead from some type of abuse. Even their children are now third generation drug addicts - MY son - while not the cream of the crop decision wise -is not a drug addict. So your choices to make CHANGES in your life at ANY TIME - ARE worthy of review - whenever you are not satisfied with the current results. DO SOMETHING ABOUT THEM......don't just wonder for another 10 years if this is as GOOD AS IT GETS. [/QUOTE]
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