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<blockquote data-quote="Janna" data-source="post: 11941" data-attributes="member: 2737"><p>It is very uncomfortable, Janet. Thank you everyone.</p><p></p><p>No, dreamer, you missed nothing, you had it right. And yes, reunification WAS, IS and ALWAYS HAS BEEN the goal.</p><p></p><p>He went there short term when we moved here in Nov.l 2005. He was to be there no more than 6 months then reunify. Alas, problems in schools, problems with him doing counseling, problems and more problems, and reunification kept getting put off.</p><p></p><p>But yes, you have the gist. They wanted him permanent. Wanted me to have a "secret" meeting with them, no caseworkers involved. They wanted to do that adoption where there were no caseworkers involved, but I still had rights (can't remember what that's called).</p><p></p><p>Then difficult child 2's behaviors in school worsened. I think Mrs. K always wanted difficult child 2 to stay. She did tell the judge he was an angel with them, part of her family, referred to him as her son?!?!?!?!?!?! Freaking insane.</p><p></p><p>Then, out of the blue, Mr. K was tired of it all. So was she, but I think she would have tolerated it, but Mr. K wasn't taking it anymore. And I don't blame him.</p><p></p><p>So, when it started getting worse, Mr. K said enough's enough. Actually, Mr. K told the foster care social worker that if difficult child 2 was bad in school one more time, he was out, then claimed that was a "scare tactic" to force him to be good, but didn't really mean it.</p><p></p><p>As the trailer park turns, man (no offense to people in trailers, they live in a park, so I'm trying to be sarcastic).</p><p></p><p>Yep, this whole thing sucks. Now, they want to know what I wanna do. That's another story entirely for another day.</p><p></p><p></p><p>I can't figure out how to get that date off the stupid MySpace page. Anyone help me with this yet?</p><p></p><p>Janna</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Janna, post: 11941, member: 2737"] It is very uncomfortable, Janet. Thank you everyone. No, dreamer, you missed nothing, you had it right. And yes, reunification WAS, IS and ALWAYS HAS BEEN the goal. He went there short term when we moved here in Nov.l 2005. He was to be there no more than 6 months then reunify. Alas, problems in schools, problems with him doing counseling, problems and more problems, and reunification kept getting put off. But yes, you have the gist. They wanted him permanent. Wanted me to have a "secret" meeting with them, no caseworkers involved. They wanted to do that adoption where there were no caseworkers involved, but I still had rights (can't remember what that's called). Then difficult child 2's behaviors in school worsened. I think Mrs. K always wanted difficult child 2 to stay. She did tell the judge he was an angel with them, part of her family, referred to him as her son?!?!?!?!?!?! Freaking insane. Then, out of the blue, Mr. K was tired of it all. So was she, but I think she would have tolerated it, but Mr. K wasn't taking it anymore. And I don't blame him. So, when it started getting worse, Mr. K said enough's enough. Actually, Mr. K told the foster care social worker that if difficult child 2 was bad in school one more time, he was out, then claimed that was a "scare tactic" to force him to be good, but didn't really mean it. As the trailer park turns, man (no offense to people in trailers, they live in a park, so I'm trying to be sarcastic). Yep, this whole thing sucks. Now, they want to know what I wanna do. That's another story entirely for another day. I can't figure out how to get that date off the stupid MySpace page. Anyone help me with this yet? Janna [/QUOTE]
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