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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 358856" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I think you can call if you can stick to your guns. Make a list of what you will and won't do before you talk to him. If you can't stick to the script, don't call. If he says something that makes you feel like you want to go off script, there's no shame in telling him "I hadn't considered that and I will need time to think it over." Then do. Talk to us or to a friend or minister or whoever you think it is that gives you the best advice. Take what you can use and leave the rest. But don't make a knee jerk decision. If you tell him you need time to consider it, and he goes all ape on you, you'll know what your answer is. You don't have to give it to him right then, because it may not be heard. But if it were me, I'd probably call - under those circumstances.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 358856, member: 99"] I think you can call if you can stick to your guns. Make a list of what you will and won't do before you talk to him. If you can't stick to the script, don't call. If he says something that makes you feel like you want to go off script, there's no shame in telling him "I hadn't considered that and I will need time to think it over." Then do. Talk to us or to a friend or minister or whoever you think it is that gives you the best advice. Take what you can use and leave the rest. But don't make a knee jerk decision. If you tell him you need time to consider it, and he goes all ape on you, you'll know what your answer is. You don't have to give it to him right then, because it may not be heard. But if it were me, I'd probably call - under those circumstances. [/QUOTE]
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