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<blockquote data-quote="vligrl" data-source="post: 517855" data-attributes="member: 14003"><p>Thank you all for your advice. Today has not been a good day and of course it is due to my son. First, he didn't go to school today saying his body hurt. He slept about 15 hours yesterday after school.,.did not go out. Besides missing school, after knowing he is failing all the subjects he missed today, he was suppose to go do his Community Service at 1:15. I had a feeling he wasn't going when he had someone pick him up instead of letting us drive him and I was right. Turns out besides missing today (called in sick an hour before he was suppose to be there telling them he has mono) he also missed going last Thursday, the day I trusted him to use his now ex car. If he doesn't make up these 6 hours by the time he goes to court next month, he will have a warrant for his arrest. He is already in hot water legally (not drug related). I feel sick to my stomach after listening to his **** about raising his grades to a C, gaining my trust again to use the new car, lying about doing his community service...I feel sick that we bought him an expensive ticket for his upcoming birthday for a music festival that he has been dying to go to (don't get the tickets until June) Not sure if he deserves one warning that if he screws up at school, lies or misses community service again, the ticket will be sold to a deserving individual, birthday or not. Personally, I think it's time he goes. I don't see anything changing school wise or anything else. He keeps talking about changing his major...why bother...I guarantee he will flunk out. Just talked to a girl he was seeing trying to find out who picked him up and apparently they aren't really seeing each other anymore as he didn't like discussing his future plans or lack thereof. She got too serious and is going to college in the fall after she graduates from high school. He is sooooooo lost. She is worried about him and his lack of motivation to do anything. Hurts that he put up a wall against her. Really appreciated knowing someone had the guts to talk to him about reality.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="vligrl, post: 517855, member: 14003"] Thank you all for your advice. Today has not been a good day and of course it is due to my son. First, he didn't go to school today saying his body hurt. He slept about 15 hours yesterday after school.,.did not go out. Besides missing school, after knowing he is failing all the subjects he missed today, he was suppose to go do his Community Service at 1:15. I had a feeling he wasn't going when he had someone pick him up instead of letting us drive him and I was right. Turns out besides missing today (called in sick an hour before he was suppose to be there telling them he has mono) he also missed going last Thursday, the day I trusted him to use his now ex car. If he doesn't make up these 6 hours by the time he goes to court next month, he will have a warrant for his arrest. He is already in hot water legally (not drug related). I feel sick to my stomach after listening to his **** about raising his grades to a C, gaining my trust again to use the new car, lying about doing his community service...I feel sick that we bought him an expensive ticket for his upcoming birthday for a music festival that he has been dying to go to (don't get the tickets until June) Not sure if he deserves one warning that if he screws up at school, lies or misses community service again, the ticket will be sold to a deserving individual, birthday or not. Personally, I think it's time he goes. I don't see anything changing school wise or anything else. He keeps talking about changing his major...why bother...I guarantee he will flunk out. Just talked to a girl he was seeing trying to find out who picked him up and apparently they aren't really seeing each other anymore as he didn't like discussing his future plans or lack thereof. She got too serious and is going to college in the fall after she graduates from high school. He is sooooooo lost. She is worried about him and his lack of motivation to do anything. Hurts that he put up a wall against her. Really appreciated knowing someone had the guts to talk to him about reality. [/QUOTE]
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