Warning, really big whiney post ahead husband has not worked in over a year, I have been only one working and we have gotten horribly behind on bills. He was denied disability, and I cannot get him to follow thru on appealing. I am going to have to sell the house and we will move in with my mom. I have talked to her about it, and she is ok with it, actually likes the idea as we will pay her rent and it will make her life easier also. Hopefully I will have enough equity to use the profit to build onto her house. I was hoping we could stay here untill spring, but that is not gonna happen. We have lived with my mom years ago, and it was ok. I just hate the idea that at 30 yrs old, I have to move home. I can either quit school (and then have to pay my student loans or lose my current state license) and get an additional job, or move. I just cannot make ends meet. Rent is so high here it would cost me more to rent a place than what I pay now unless I got an apartment, and I think that would still be more. I feel like such a loser. I work and go to school. I really do not know what else I can do. Now I have to decide whether I want father in law to sell the house (he is real estate agent. He thinks husband has no pain and it is just in his head. I disagree, and if any of that were true it may be from the way he raised husband and how many times he beat him!!! (back to subject at hand) I just want to cry, but kids are still up as it is only 7:00 here. husband is not home, he went to help someone return a motor home. I just do not see another option.