Timer Lady

Discussion in 'The Watercooler' started by everywoman, Jul 11, 2009.

  1. everywoman

    everywoman Active Member

    Just checking on you and making sure you are okay. I know you had a horrible week. Please check in and let us know you're alright.
  2. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    Yes Linda........I've been watching for a post. Been worrying about you. Please check in and let us know how you're doing.

    You know we worry.

  3. mstang67chic

    mstang67chic Going Green

    Me three.

  4. crazymama30

    crazymama30 Active Member

    Me too, or four, however the case maybe. Hugs.
  5. timer lady

    timer lady Queen of Hearts

    I'm doing ladies, I'm doing my best to keep my mind on other, more positive things. On memories of husband that were fun & pleasant but with-o the tweedles.

    I had the most horrendous dream last night that my dad came here & tore apart my entire remodel ~ "you cannot take care of this Linda". Woke in tears.

    I have to face my daughter with-o losing what's left of me. If she pushes me one step beyond this I'm afraid I'll be out of the picture.

    I'm sorry ~ rambling again. Thank you for asking ~ I'm doing, just doing.
  6. susiestar

    susiestar Roll With It

    I can hear the pain in your message. I am sorry that your heart has been so brutally beaten up the last year or so. You totally are right to focus on YOU right now. If you are not healthy as much as possible, and adapting and coping as much as you can, you will end up miserable.

    I am sure that your father would come in and comment on the amazing and beautiful remodel. He would be proud that you figured out what you would need and took steps to make it happen. He would be proud that you are doing what you can to take care of yourself and not let the tweedles, the "system" or anything else take your sense of self away. I know the rest of your family, the one you were born into, the one you have here on the board, and all the other people you have taken into your heart in your life - ALL of us who love you are PROUD of you, AMAZED at the love and care you give to both of the tweedles and husband and all of us and yourself.

    I don't know what the future holds for the most part. I DO know that we will always love you. Period. No exceptions, but, or qualifications. We love you. We support you. We know this is wrong.

    Do whatever you need to. Worry about all the other stuff later.

    gentle hugs. much love.

  7. Hound dog

    Hound dog Nana's are Beautiful

    I couldn't have said it better.

    You're in my prayers Linda, and in my thoughts.

  8. gcvmom

    gcvmom Here we go again!

    Susie, you are amazingly eloquent for this time of night. I can barely type. Beautifully said.

    Hugs again, Linda.