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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 175474" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><strong>dreamer,</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>I see part of this weekend as just being ornery! He knows kt & I can do many things alone. However, he has never ever let kt home alone with me when I've been this weak & exhausted. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>AND kt overheard some of husband's comments so her anxiety level has skyrocketed. It doesn't make for an easy weekend to come. She actually told husband that he needed to stay home & take care of his family. It didn't go over well with husband. At all! I tend to be the mediator between husband & kt of late - it's getting old.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>psychiatrist, therapist & mental health case manager feel that kt needs some oversight this weekend with my health as it is. As we can't talk husband out of waiting until next weekend we are going for respite or in home help if we can find it. With kt's anxiety level on the rise, there is fear of meltdown or dissociative states. Will it happen? Who knows? Can it happen - you betcha! Am I up for a ride to the hospital in an ambulance & a 10 hour admit - no way. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>I always plan ahead; it's the only way I have survived so far. I plan for the worst & hope for the best. I always always have a safety net of some sort; this weekend I don't.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Anytime, I've taken a weekend I've made sure kt was at respite or there was double coverage at home for husband. I pray that husband figures out whatever he needs to figure out this weekend. That he comes home refreshed & recharged. I cannot change wm's circumstances - they are what they are. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 175474, member: 393"] [B]dreamer, I see part of this weekend as just being ornery! He knows kt & I can do many things alone. However, he has never ever let kt home alone with me when I've been this weak & exhausted. AND kt overheard some of husband's comments so her anxiety level has skyrocketed. It doesn't make for an easy weekend to come. She actually told husband that he needed to stay home & take care of his family. It didn't go over well with husband. At all! I tend to be the mediator between husband & kt of late - it's getting old. psychiatrist, therapist & mental health case manager feel that kt needs some oversight this weekend with my health as it is. As we can't talk husband out of waiting until next weekend we are going for respite or in home help if we can find it. With kt's anxiety level on the rise, there is fear of meltdown or dissociative states. Will it happen? Who knows? Can it happen - you betcha! Am I up for a ride to the hospital in an ambulance & a 10 hour admit - no way. I always plan ahead; it's the only way I have survived so far. I plan for the worst & hope for the best. I always always have a safety net of some sort; this weekend I don't. Anytime, I've taken a weekend I've made sure kt was at respite or there was double coverage at home for husband. I pray that husband figures out whatever he needs to figure out this weekend. That he comes home refreshed & recharged. I cannot change wm's circumstances - they are what they are. [/B] [/QUOTE]
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