I think this is a great topic even if the thread is from 2007. I am in the same situation and many others probably are too. EVERYthing we ask/tell/demand/plead with difficult child to do is met with opposition. EVERYTHING! It is enough to drive a saint insane. I would love to hear ideas and suggestions also.
I think the gratitude journal is a great idea. As well as laughing daily.... spending quality time together... repairing the relationship... picking your battles... etc. I have not found the one answer that will make difficult child not be oppositional anymore. I don't think that exists.
