I didn't realize the thread is from 2007 ( and I read the whole thing -- Oopsie.)
Ah yes, the topic of ODD never seems to grow old. A thread can be bumped and it's just like yesterday. Also -- the wisdom by the other posters is sweet.
Jo
P.S. About the laughing that I wrote about earlier -- whenever I find I have released a good belly laugh, I feel such a surprising relief. I can really see why we evolved with laughter -- it's literally a survival mechanism. Also -- good music that I loved before I became a parent -- The Stones Let It Bleed, Bob Seeger's Roll Me Away. Helps me remember I am a person not a doormat and Bob Seeger knows this for sure.
I guess living well is the best revenge ( I didn't make that up).
