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Tired of crying and having swollen eyes everyday
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<blockquote data-quote="Jenna0823" data-source="post: 743620" data-attributes="member: 23448"><p>I dont think i can change the situation with my granddaughter but i feel like i am leaving her in the lions cage. When my daughter relapses i will pounce on that opportunity to get her. My friends say maybe god has a reason for this. Maybe my granddaughter is going to be like my daughter and i am being saved from many more years of torment. I have accepted my daughter is not a nice person. I had hoped she has a conscience by the recent stuff she has done while clean prove she doesnt. I am trying to accept my granddaughter is not with me because i wont be able to get her until my daughter messes up again. My son said ‘mom she is a screw up just wait it out’. I do need help processing this. I have put out some contacts for a counselor and maybe an Alanon group. Its so hard missing my granddaughter and i love her and just want her to have a great life. Until i can successfully and safely do anything i need help accepting it and as you said changing the channel. How do i do that?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jenna0823, post: 743620, member: 23448"] I dont think i can change the situation with my granddaughter but i feel like i am leaving her in the lions cage. When my daughter relapses i will pounce on that opportunity to get her. My friends say maybe god has a reason for this. Maybe my granddaughter is going to be like my daughter and i am being saved from many more years of torment. I have accepted my daughter is not a nice person. I had hoped she has a conscience by the recent stuff she has done while clean prove she doesnt. I am trying to accept my granddaughter is not with me because i wont be able to get her until my daughter messes up again. My son said ‘mom she is a screw up just wait it out’. I do need help processing this. I have put out some contacts for a counselor and maybe an Alanon group. Its so hard missing my granddaughter and i love her and just want her to have a great life. Until i can successfully and safely do anything i need help accepting it and as you said changing the channel. How do i do that? [/QUOTE]
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