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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 723034" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>TM</p><p>Boundaries and expectations are critical. Your daughter is now 23. I understand complexity. My son is 18 however we have been battling with him since he was 15. </p><p></p><p>We strive to find a balance between loving and enabling. This is usually when those that abuse us can get ugly. We need to stand our ground. </p><p></p><p>I would not cut her out completely, set your boundaries and expectations and be firm. If she does not respect these boundaries then she is not welcome to engage in your life. </p><p></p><p>I am so certain this is difficult with a bandy in the mix as well. If she is a good mother, she does know how to do the right thing and make the right choices. </p><p></p><p>You are not alone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 723034, member: 21895"] TM Boundaries and expectations are critical. Your daughter is now 23. I understand complexity. My son is 18 however we have been battling with him since he was 15. We strive to find a balance between loving and enabling. This is usually when those that abuse us can get ugly. We need to stand our ground. I would not cut her out completely, set your boundaries and expectations and be firm. If she does not respect these boundaries then she is not welcome to engage in your life. I am so certain this is difficult with a bandy in the mix as well. If she is a good mother, she does know how to do the right thing and make the right choices. You are not alone. [/QUOTE]
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