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<blockquote data-quote="tiredparents" data-source="post: 430644" data-attributes="member: 12016"><p>This is hard to start. I am going to start with my son, I. He is 6 years old, his bio father has not been around for the last year. Thankfully my current husband is wonderful and my son calls him dad. I was molested by my stepdaughter, his fathers first daughter. We have had him in counseling with a psychologist for the last year, and our pediatrician and our psychologist are referring him to a psychiatrist for a possible diagnosis of Conduct Disorder. But nothing truly diagnosed yet. Some of the problems we deal with are I peeing on things in his room, he messes in his underwear on almost a daily basis, and hides the underwear. He is very aggressive to our 4 year old, chokes him, yells at him, gets so easily irritated with him. He will lie right to my face even when I have seen him in the act. He will do this with my husband as well. He is ending his kindergarten year, and to my surprise we have had no issues at school. Only at home. He can be very destructive to his things, and others things. We have problems with him being too sexually active with himself, which I know is normal to some extent. But for example my husband went past his room last night and he had his shorts down and quickly pulled them up when he heard my husband walking. So this I would classify as normal I think, but then when I woke up this morning and went to the bathroom, as I passed his bedroom and looked in, I noticed that he was basically prancing around his room completely naked. We are so worn out and it is hard to know how to deal with him, as we have 2 other children. I seen on someones post that their child can't stand to have the tags in their shirt, Isaiah is the same way. I never put that with anything that we are dealing with, but now I am starting to look at everything. I love this child with all of my heart. He is my first born and it is very hard to accept the things that he is doing. I am at a loss. His bio father definitely has some of the same issues, and obviously so does his daughter, whom I raised for 9 years. Isaiah has just had the perfect storm for problems. On top of his father walking out of his life, and him being molested, I suffered a ruptured brain aneurysm in August and spent 30 days in the ICU, since I have thankfully made a full recovery. My husband and I are looking to find the support from other parents who are going through the same type of things. Any type of response will be greatly appreciated! Thanks so much for your time. </p><p>Shawn and Amy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tiredparents, post: 430644, member: 12016"] This is hard to start. I am going to start with my son, I. He is 6 years old, his bio father has not been around for the last year. Thankfully my current husband is wonderful and my son calls him dad. I was molested by my stepdaughter, his fathers first daughter. We have had him in counseling with a psychologist for the last year, and our pediatrician and our psychologist are referring him to a psychiatrist for a possible diagnosis of Conduct Disorder. But nothing truly diagnosed yet. Some of the problems we deal with are I peeing on things in his room, he messes in his underwear on almost a daily basis, and hides the underwear. He is very aggressive to our 4 year old, chokes him, yells at him, gets so easily irritated with him. He will lie right to my face even when I have seen him in the act. He will do this with my husband as well. He is ending his kindergarten year, and to my surprise we have had no issues at school. Only at home. He can be very destructive to his things, and others things. We have problems with him being too sexually active with himself, which I know is normal to some extent. But for example my husband went past his room last night and he had his shorts down and quickly pulled them up when he heard my husband walking. So this I would classify as normal I think, but then when I woke up this morning and went to the bathroom, as I passed his bedroom and looked in, I noticed that he was basically prancing around his room completely naked. We are so worn out and it is hard to know how to deal with him, as we have 2 other children. I seen on someones post that their child can't stand to have the tags in their shirt, Isaiah is the same way. I never put that with anything that we are dealing with, but now I am starting to look at everything. I love this child with all of my heart. He is my first born and it is very hard to accept the things that he is doing. I am at a loss. His bio father definitely has some of the same issues, and obviously so does his daughter, whom I raised for 9 years. Isaiah has just had the perfect storm for problems. On top of his father walking out of his life, and him being molested, I suffered a ruptured brain aneurysm in August and spent 30 days in the ICU, since I have thankfully made a full recovery. My husband and I are looking to find the support from other parents who are going through the same type of things. Any type of response will be greatly appreciated! Thanks so much for your time. Shawn and Amy [/QUOTE]
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