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<blockquote data-quote="tiredparents" data-source="post: 430816" data-attributes="member: 12016"><p>Thank you so much for the responses that I have gotten today. I have totally went and corrected names and such. Thanks for letting me know I should do that!</p><p></p><p>I agree with what was said about home not being safe anymore, but my only thing on that, is that the ex's daughter was removed from my home immediately after finding this information out, so I hope that he feels that home is safe soon, as she was removed almost 2 years ago now. </p><p></p><p>In the beginning I did deal with I as a disciplinarian, but since we have been seeing the counselor I have been taking his advice on how to deal with I and the things that he does. For example, instead of asking "why did you do that" I have started asking, "Can you help me understand why you think you did that?" I have definitely tried approaching these times with more compassion and understanding. </p><p></p><p>I am so glad to hear you all say that we should have seen some progress in the last year, because I have thought that myself, but I just try to go with the flow and listen to the "experts". So first thing in the morning I am calling to see if we can get a different counselor and try to get the referral for the psychiatrist pushed along any further. </p><p></p><p>We have had a good day today, I am so thankful. I, played outside all day with his brother and there was only one time I had to speak to him. It is crazy how one minute he CAN be the "model child" and then the next he is a different boy. </p><p></p><p> I have read many posts today about how some children get a different look in their eye when they are having an episode and I can agree with that, when I is having one of his days, moments, hours, he does get a different look in his eye and when you speak to him, its like he is not there. </p><p></p><p>I am so glad that I have found this site, and I appreciate everyone's input very much! </p><p></p><p>Thanks again!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tiredparents, post: 430816, member: 12016"] Thank you so much for the responses that I have gotten today. I have totally went and corrected names and such. Thanks for letting me know I should do that! I agree with what was said about home not being safe anymore, but my only thing on that, is that the ex's daughter was removed from my home immediately after finding this information out, so I hope that he feels that home is safe soon, as she was removed almost 2 years ago now. In the beginning I did deal with I as a disciplinarian, but since we have been seeing the counselor I have been taking his advice on how to deal with I and the things that he does. For example, instead of asking "why did you do that" I have started asking, "Can you help me understand why you think you did that?" I have definitely tried approaching these times with more compassion and understanding. I am so glad to hear you all say that we should have seen some progress in the last year, because I have thought that myself, but I just try to go with the flow and listen to the "experts". So first thing in the morning I am calling to see if we can get a different counselor and try to get the referral for the psychiatrist pushed along any further. We have had a good day today, I am so thankful. I, played outside all day with his brother and there was only one time I had to speak to him. It is crazy how one minute he CAN be the "model child" and then the next he is a different boy. I have read many posts today about how some children get a different look in their eye when they are having an episode and I can agree with that, when I is having one of his days, moments, hours, he does get a different look in his eye and when you speak to him, its like he is not there. I am so glad that I have found this site, and I appreciate everyone's input very much! Thanks again! [/QUOTE]
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