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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 113191" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>We never bailed Rob out when he was arrested. </p><p></p><p>Over time we recognized that the only thing that would work for him was natural consequences----ie, break the law/get arrested.</p><p></p><p>We never paid attorney fees either. He always used a public defender and was represented fairly. I realize that he was very lucky to have a fabulous PO and adequate representation, but that isn't the issue here.</p><p></p><p>Stands, you've already read it many times from a variety of people on this thread....until your difficult child starts taking his future seriously and working towards positive goals, your efforts are, unfortunately, futile.</p><p></p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 113191, member: 29"] We never bailed Rob out when he was arrested. Over time we recognized that the only thing that would work for him was natural consequences----ie, break the law/get arrested. We never paid attorney fees either. He always used a public defender and was represented fairly. I realize that he was very lucky to have a fabulous PO and adequate representation, but that isn't the issue here. Stands, you've already read it many times from a variety of people on this thread....until your difficult child starts taking his future seriously and working towards positive goals, your efforts are, unfortunately, futile. Suz [/QUOTE]
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