Well it seems that this man from Triune Ministries finally talked to my difficult children lawyer. The lawyer said he may go to court sometime this year! So this little man asked him if we could send him to rehab while he waited. The lawyer said sure! So now the bondsman said if we bailed him out and he didnt finish rehab then they would hunt him down and we would not be responsible for the rest of the payment. If we put $250. up and his bail is $5,000. then we would have to pay something surely. Anyway I am now wondering if we should do that or not? I am going to talk to husband - I probably already know what he is going to say! I will also talk to God. I missed my therapist appointment. I called to tell them I wouldnt be there beacause I had a choral program and I didnt call soon enough so they charged me $140. for both times! I just pay $20. copay. Anyway I guess I cant talk to her until I pay. Alanon will be Monday thank goodness. So I wanted to know what yall think! If he bails out or they kick him out - what will happen then - I cant stand the thought of it but at the same time what good is jail doing him. He says he is a trustee. He will have a job of either cleaning up floors or kitchen duty. This is a sad situation. It has been easy on me because I haveant had to worry about what is going to happen next or where he is. Tell me what you think.