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To keep your adult child's 'secrets' from SO/other parent or not?
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 559071" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>You all make lot of sense. medical issues (that are not safety or life and death issues) are certainly something rather private. And difficult child has a right to decide to whom to tell.</p><p></p><p>It is just new to me. Before we have always discussed about kids' medical issues together.Things we have kept kids secrets have been more about a girl they may like or having trouble with a girlfriend etc. Well, you know: things deadly important and private to the kid, not so to the parent. I'm also bit apprehensive how husband will take me not telling (when he does find out.) I'm afraid he could consider it as me coddling difficult child, taking his side (against whom, I don't know) or something like that.</p><p></p><p>But yeah, I probably should ask difficult child if it is okay with him that I tell dad or does h4e want to keep this private.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 559071, member: 14557"] You all make lot of sense. medical issues (that are not safety or life and death issues) are certainly something rather private. And difficult child has a right to decide to whom to tell. It is just new to me. Before we have always discussed about kids' medical issues together.Things we have kept kids secrets have been more about a girl they may like or having trouble with a girlfriend etc. Well, you know: things deadly important and private to the kid, not so to the parent. I'm also bit apprehensive how husband will take me not telling (when he does find out.) I'm afraid he could consider it as me coddling difficult child, taking his side (against whom, I don't know) or something like that. But yeah, I probably should ask difficult child if it is okay with him that I tell dad or does h4e want to keep this private. [/QUOTE]
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