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To the curb... one foot in front of the other
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 369480" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I am sending you huge hugs - for both you and husband. This adjustment period is like a complete Twilight Zone. For TWENTY years or so someone handed you this bundle of a human and said "THIS IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY" and you said "OKAY I " and did your level best at everything. You made mistakes, you corrected them, you laughed, you cried, you hoped, you dreamed, you cared, you adjusted, you allowed, you disallowed, and in the end with children like ours? You let go, and unlike parents of children who don't have disorders? We are never given a normal allowance of anything. Not even in letting go. It's all so surreal. Nearly unfair - if there was such a thing as fair. </p><p> </p><p>If my body was my dreams and readjusting things was physically able to be seen? I'm sure my boobs would be tucked in my shoes and not because of old age. Know what I mean?? </p><p> </p><p>Numbness should never be a part of parenting that we have to get used to, but I understand and - stand by you and your choices which I know were very hard, and necessary. For both you and your child. If it makes your husband feel any better or gets rid of the tension headache? Tell him to journal and never show your son, or write his feelings of NOW down in a letter to his kid....and seal it up in an envelope and when your kid has a moment of clarity? Let him hand it to him and know how he felt about it all. That may help him get through this. </p><p> </p><p>We all get through difficulties - differently. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs for your day and days to come. </p><p> </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 369480, member: 4964"] I am sending you huge hugs - for both you and husband. This adjustment period is like a complete Twilight Zone. For TWENTY years or so someone handed you this bundle of a human and said "THIS IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY" and you said "OKAY I " and did your level best at everything. You made mistakes, you corrected them, you laughed, you cried, you hoped, you dreamed, you cared, you adjusted, you allowed, you disallowed, and in the end with children like ours? You let go, and unlike parents of children who don't have disorders? We are never given a normal allowance of anything. Not even in letting go. It's all so surreal. Nearly unfair - if there was such a thing as fair. If my body was my dreams and readjusting things was physically able to be seen? I'm sure my boobs would be tucked in my shoes and not because of old age. Know what I mean?? Numbness should never be a part of parenting that we have to get used to, but I understand and - stand by you and your choices which I know were very hard, and necessary. For both you and your child. If it makes your husband feel any better or gets rid of the tension headache? Tell him to journal and never show your son, or write his feelings of NOW down in a letter to his kid....and seal it up in an envelope and when your kid has a moment of clarity? Let him hand it to him and know how he felt about it all. That may help him get through this. We all get through difficulties - differently. Hugs for your day and days to come. Star [/QUOTE]
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