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Today's incident. What would you have done?
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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 266865" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>It never ends. i'm so sorry.</p><p> </p><p>If I was the para I would of let him finish his words when he spoke, I would of gotten down to his level instead of towering over him and being threatening (she is such a trigger for him i bet), than I would of said that's very considerate you want to apologize to Mom and i think it's great you care about how mom feels when she is at work. It's also great you were able to say that, yet my feelings are hurt because of this this and that. I'd love to have an apology also. Than if he was calm id revisit whatever it is that happened and say to him how do you think you could of handled that differently? depending on how responsive he was to me at the time.</p><p> </p><p>I would not have put him in the safe room or demanded he do his work, or get into a power play with a child who is struggling.</p><p> </p><p>she's a piece of work.</p><p> </p><p>I'm not going to say as a parent what i would of done, it's hard to know in situations how one would react when it comes to our own children unless you are there in the heat of the moment (yet chuck her out the window comes to mind <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p> </p><p>No wonder he is acting how he is in there. I would too. I know you have struggled so hard and so long with-this school and this para inparticular. What can you do now??</p><p> </p><p>I'm sending you hugs. How are you feeling about it? are you upset? how is difficult child doing now??</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 266865, member: 4514"] It never ends. i'm so sorry. If I was the para I would of let him finish his words when he spoke, I would of gotten down to his level instead of towering over him and being threatening (she is such a trigger for him i bet), than I would of said that's very considerate you want to apologize to Mom and i think it's great you care about how mom feels when she is at work. It's also great you were able to say that, yet my feelings are hurt because of this this and that. I'd love to have an apology also. Than if he was calm id revisit whatever it is that happened and say to him how do you think you could of handled that differently? depending on how responsive he was to me at the time. I would not have put him in the safe room or demanded he do his work, or get into a power play with a child who is struggling. she's a piece of work. I'm not going to say as a parent what i would of done, it's hard to know in situations how one would react when it comes to our own children unless you are there in the heat of the moment (yet chuck her out the window comes to mind :) No wonder he is acting how he is in there. I would too. I know you have struggled so hard and so long with-this school and this para inparticular. What can you do now?? I'm sending you hugs. How are you feeling about it? are you upset? how is difficult child doing now?? [/QUOTE]
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