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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 189948" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry you have to live with this. The level of violence is just so high. It is over the top of what many of us have experienced. Your son is very dangerous - NO ONE should be home alone with him. Please make sure all bedroom doors have GOOD locks - each person should lock their door at night every night. You really don't know when he is going to lose it and hurt someone badly. The stabbing of things goes way way way beyong "wierdness".</p><p> </p><p>You may not be able to see the severity of it because you have lived with it for a long time. </p><p> </p><p>He is an ADULT. I really thing there is more illegal stuff in his room. It needs to be searched with a fine tooth comb when he is out of the house. </p><p></p><p>You say his life will fall apart if you don't do things for him.</p><p> </p><p>He will NEVER get his act together unless you let him hit his personal bottom. It won't be what YOU think bottom it - it must be HIS bottom. At that point he will accept help and the tools to recover. </p><p> </p><p>Until he hits his bottom ANY and ALL help - including rides, shelter, food, etc... - are enabling. He is clearly huffing - you can be quite sure he is NOT waxing his furniture. By giving him a place to live and rides to court, etc... you are enabling him. He can get a ride to court - they will come get him if he doesn't show. </p><p> </p><p>I hope you and husband can be on the same page and let him go live like this away from the family. It is dangerous to have him near the family - regardless of his diagnosis.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 189948, member: 1233"] I am so sorry you have to live with this. The level of violence is just so high. It is over the top of what many of us have experienced. Your son is very dangerous - NO ONE should be home alone with him. Please make sure all bedroom doors have GOOD locks - each person should lock their door at night every night. You really don't know when he is going to lose it and hurt someone badly. The stabbing of things goes way way way beyong "wierdness". You may not be able to see the severity of it because you have lived with it for a long time. He is an ADULT. I really thing there is more illegal stuff in his room. It needs to be searched with a fine tooth comb when he is out of the house. You say his life will fall apart if you don't do things for him. He will NEVER get his act together unless you let him hit his personal bottom. It won't be what YOU think bottom it - it must be HIS bottom. At that point he will accept help and the tools to recover. Until he hits his bottom ANY and ALL help - including rides, shelter, food, etc... - are enabling. He is clearly huffing - you can be quite sure he is NOT waxing his furniture. By giving him a place to live and rides to court, etc... you are enabling him. He can get a ride to court - they will come get him if he doesn't show. I hope you and husband can be on the same page and let him go live like this away from the family. It is dangerous to have him near the family - regardless of his diagnosis. [/QUOTE]
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