Well, I did my parent report for the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) Grant. I have to redo it because I sound too much like I know what I am talking about The woman assigned to help me compile the grant application told me that I sound too much like a clinician. They want me to sound more like a mom. I told her she should meet my warrior mom group ! I shouldn't know words like "disassociate" and "flashback" because the grant committee wouldn't believe a parent knew what those words meant. I reread my report and I did slide into 3rd person when discussing some of the more horrible aspects of Kanga. I also noticed that I used her given name throughout the report except the section where I have to write her positive qualities, there I used her nickname. Guess that tells me something The good news is that once husband sends my last 2 faxes from his work tomorrow all of her records will have been requested and should be received within 7-10 days. And I was able to get my sister to watch my littles so I can meet with the Grant-lady tomorrow. We are moving forward!