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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 617815" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Hi there. I am soooooooooo sorry your trust was betrayed by your daughter. You are not alone. Obviously your daughter has a drug problem and is probably both taking and selling the drugs (it kind of goes together).</p><p></p><p>Can you tell us more about her? Is she living at home? Did you call the police? I think you need to because if you run out of your medications early, you could be accused of misusing your own medication.</p><p></p><p>Your daughter is 25, meaning she is well along the path of being an adult. She is no longer your young child that you have to protect. It seems now you need protection from her. You have some serious health issues. Crohns, which my brother has had since age twelve, almost killed him, although he is doing well now. He does get flare ups when stressed. Maybe he was smart...he decided not to marry and have kids...lol <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> A sad joke, really.</p><p></p><p>You also do not need stress for your back. You deserve to have a healthy and peaceful rest-of-your-life because you matter and many people care about you. It's not just about your daughter. Have you read the article on detachment?</p><p></p><p>Many, many hugs for your hurting mommy heart...hoping you can detach enough from this adult child to live those wonderful golden years happily enjoying yourself, with your daughter owning her own drama and problems. You can not make her go to rehab. That is 100% her own decision. Don't waste your time begging...let her come to her own decision. To get help detaching, I highly recommend either Nar-Anon (face time support) or a therapist of your own who is focused on YOUR well-being, not your daughter's. Do not try to brave this alone and do not think that you have to suffer because your daughter is making criminal decisions. You are NOT her. She is NOT you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 617815, member: 1550"] Hi there. I am soooooooooo sorry your trust was betrayed by your daughter. You are not alone. Obviously your daughter has a drug problem and is probably both taking and selling the drugs (it kind of goes together). Can you tell us more about her? Is she living at home? Did you call the police? I think you need to because if you run out of your medications early, you could be accused of misusing your own medication. Your daughter is 25, meaning she is well along the path of being an adult. She is no longer your young child that you have to protect. It seems now you need protection from her. You have some serious health issues. Crohns, which my brother has had since age twelve, almost killed him, although he is doing well now. He does get flare ups when stressed. Maybe he was smart...he decided not to marry and have kids...lol :) A sad joke, really. You also do not need stress for your back. You deserve to have a healthy and peaceful rest-of-your-life because you matter and many people care about you. It's not just about your daughter. Have you read the article on detachment? Many, many hugs for your hurting mommy heart...hoping you can detach enough from this adult child to live those wonderful golden years happily enjoying yourself, with your daughter owning her own drama and problems. You can not make her go to rehab. That is 100% her own decision. Don't waste your time begging...let her come to her own decision. To get help detaching, I highly recommend either Nar-Anon (face time support) or a therapist of your own who is focused on YOUR well-being, not your daughter's. Do not try to brave this alone and do not think that you have to suffer because your daughter is making criminal decisions. You are NOT her. She is NOT you. [/QUOTE]
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