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Took my difficult child to the police station tonight
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 376179" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>It sounds like you handled things well. Be sure that you put the amount of time spent with friends in writing, and note that it is conditional on him keeping his job, saving X% of the money, paying his car insurance or the amt yours increases to have him on it, and keeping grades of whatever you think is reasonable. Make sure that it says that if he gets into trouble with the law, uses drugs or substances of any kind, consumes alcohol, drives while under the influence of anything, that he loses ALL privileges. </p><p> </p><p>I would write down a bit less time than the amt you really think is reasonable because he will want an increase or run late at some point and then you won't be so annoyed. You will even seem nice when it isn't a big deal. Make sure the car is NOT in his name, or at least not his name only.</p><p> </p><p>I would go back to this woman and tell her that if you learn your son is drinking, using ANY substance/drug, or not coming home on time or having sex or doing anything else he couldn't do with his Grandma and two priests, then you will press charges against her for contributing to the delinquency of a minor, dealing/conspiracy to deal if drugs are around, giving alcohol to a minor, and alienation of affection along with anything else you and your attorney can think of.</p><p> </p><p>Chances are she will lock the door and board up the windows if she sees difficult child coming after that. Make sure you include suing her for her share of the child support if difficult child has sex at her home, and for all of the doctor bills if he gets and std, including the lifelong care for aids or hepatitis or herpes!! (whether or not you can do that, I don't know. But she isn't likely to know either - and i bet that if you have enough parents of teens on a jury you could get an award to cover that too.</p><p> </p><p>People like her make me sick.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 376179, member: 1233"] It sounds like you handled things well. Be sure that you put the amount of time spent with friends in writing, and note that it is conditional on him keeping his job, saving X% of the money, paying his car insurance or the amt yours increases to have him on it, and keeping grades of whatever you think is reasonable. Make sure that it says that if he gets into trouble with the law, uses drugs or substances of any kind, consumes alcohol, drives while under the influence of anything, that he loses ALL privileges. I would write down a bit less time than the amt you really think is reasonable because he will want an increase or run late at some point and then you won't be so annoyed. You will even seem nice when it isn't a big deal. Make sure the car is NOT in his name, or at least not his name only. I would go back to this woman and tell her that if you learn your son is drinking, using ANY substance/drug, or not coming home on time or having sex or doing anything else he couldn't do with his Grandma and two priests, then you will press charges against her for contributing to the delinquency of a minor, dealing/conspiracy to deal if drugs are around, giving alcohol to a minor, and alienation of affection along with anything else you and your attorney can think of. Chances are she will lock the door and board up the windows if she sees difficult child coming after that. Make sure you include suing her for her share of the child support if difficult child has sex at her home, and for all of the doctor bills if he gets and std, including the lifelong care for aids or hepatitis or herpes!! (whether or not you can do that, I don't know. But she isn't likely to know either - and i bet that if you have enough parents of teens on a jury you could get an award to cover that too. People like her make me sick. [/QUOTE]
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