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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 376293" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, you have my sympathy...this is certainly hard to watch. Although I have no experience with this myself, my closest friend has a daughter who lives with an ex-convict (he is her "fiance") and they have three kids (although one is not biologically related to him and one is not biologically related to her). They dump the kids (all three) on her doorstep every day and she wants to file to custody of one of her bio. grandchildren, however she's afraid to go up against her daughter's wrath. I think she should as the daughter is never with the child and lives with a drug user (and may be one herself). You may want to consider filing for custody of your grandchild, if you are up for it. Obviously, nobody can care for it properly. If you're not able to raise another child though, don't feel bad...this is their responsibility and, if they don't live up to it, you can always get social services involved.</p><p></p><p>I love animals. The very least I would do, if I was in your shoes, Is call Animal Control to help those poor cats. That is one thing that is in your control. I don't think they can tell who called them. It's anonymous. </p><p></p><p>Sending you hugs. Take care of yourself and don't focus on them so much. There isn't a whole lot you can do right now. It's not worth it to give up the rest of your life to agony because of your irresponsible kid. You're important too.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 376293, member: 1550"] Well, you have my sympathy...this is certainly hard to watch. Although I have no experience with this myself, my closest friend has a daughter who lives with an ex-convict (he is her "fiance") and they have three kids (although one is not biologically related to him and one is not biologically related to her). They dump the kids (all three) on her doorstep every day and she wants to file to custody of one of her bio. grandchildren, however she's afraid to go up against her daughter's wrath. I think she should as the daughter is never with the child and lives with a drug user (and may be one herself). You may want to consider filing for custody of your grandchild, if you are up for it. Obviously, nobody can care for it properly. If you're not able to raise another child though, don't feel bad...this is their responsibility and, if they don't live up to it, you can always get social services involved. I love animals. The very least I would do, if I was in your shoes, Is call Animal Control to help those poor cats. That is one thing that is in your control. I don't think they can tell who called them. It's anonymous. Sending you hugs. Take care of yourself and don't focus on them so much. There isn't a whole lot you can do right now. It's not worth it to give up the rest of your life to agony because of your irresponsible kid. You're important too. [/QUOTE]
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