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<blockquote data-quote="Giulia" data-source="post: 519961" data-attributes="member: 14306"><p>I was a person unable to make the simplest task. </p><p>No proper treatment for my ADHD, so intense focus problems.</p><p></p><p>After, we took tiny steps. But very tiny steps. </p><p>Like I manage my own laundry and I feed the cats. Not and I clean up my room, and I don't clean up the plates, and I don't scream.... </p><p>Then, I could add managing the grocery shopping when mom is not able to do it, which I do most of the time. </p><p>It happens to mix up the money, but I give her back the money I took (I wish I could kill my Maths Learning Disability (LD) and never mix up with numbers). </p><p></p><p>I know it's hard to be patient. But her ability to apologize whereas she didn't do before is a good sign for me. </p><p>To lead to something productive, rely to baby steps. I know it's hard, but it's the only secret I know so far to lead her to be more productive. </p><p>There is hope <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>At the moment, I can't hold a paid job and i wish I could study at university. I wish I could, I feel like a failure for not doing so. I try to do my best at my volunteer job, but I know that I can't always do everything I wish to do. I try to keep up my advocating job (even if it's from home and I organize myself like a liberal profession, I treat it like a job : fighting to make a law change is like a full time job by itself) and I wish I could finish the last 10 lines of my practical guide chapter to show it to an editor. </p><p>Sorry, it was not in my mom's plans. But really, we have a better relationship than a few years ago. Despite my inability to hold a paid job (yet) and to go to study (yet).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Giulia, post: 519961, member: 14306"] I was a person unable to make the simplest task. No proper treatment for my ADHD, so intense focus problems. After, we took tiny steps. But very tiny steps. Like I manage my own laundry and I feed the cats. Not and I clean up my room, and I don't clean up the plates, and I don't scream.... Then, I could add managing the grocery shopping when mom is not able to do it, which I do most of the time. It happens to mix up the money, but I give her back the money I took (I wish I could kill my Maths Learning Disability (LD) and never mix up with numbers). I know it's hard to be patient. But her ability to apologize whereas she didn't do before is a good sign for me. To lead to something productive, rely to baby steps. I know it's hard, but it's the only secret I know so far to lead her to be more productive. There is hope :) At the moment, I can't hold a paid job and i wish I could study at university. I wish I could, I feel like a failure for not doing so. I try to do my best at my volunteer job, but I know that I can't always do everything I wish to do. I try to keep up my advocating job (even if it's from home and I organize myself like a liberal profession, I treat it like a job : fighting to make a law change is like a full time job by itself) and I wish I could finish the last 10 lines of my practical guide chapter to show it to an editor. Sorry, it was not in my mom's plans. But really, we have a better relationship than a few years ago. Despite my inability to hold a paid job (yet) and to go to study (yet). [/QUOTE]
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