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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 708118" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>This is it in a nutshell, Catmom. Exactly so.You can take a horse to water but you can't make him drink. Duh.</p><p>Which is exactly what happened.</p><p></p><p>I love him so much. Love cannot change another adult unless we are willing. It is finally clear that he is unwilling.</p><p></p><p>This is very painful to me. He was gone for over 4 years. That was a different kind of pain, because I froze my heart solid to endure it. Now I am unfrozen.</p><p></p><p>But he has to live the life he makes. There is no other way to see it.</p><p></p><p>Thank you very much for responding. It helped.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 708118, member: 18958"] This is it in a nutshell, Catmom. Exactly so.You can take a horse to water but you can't make him drink. Duh. Which is exactly what happened. I love him so much. Love cannot change another adult unless we are willing. It is finally clear that he is unwilling. This is very painful to me. He was gone for over 4 years. That was a different kind of pain, because I froze my heart solid to endure it. Now I am unfrozen. But he has to live the life he makes. There is no other way to see it. Thank you very much for responding. It helped. [/QUOTE]
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