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<blockquote data-quote="TheyAreLegallyAdultsNow" data-source="post: 353352" data-attributes="member: 8405"><p>(((((((((((((HUGS!!!)))))))))))))) </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry your DS-difficult child is so abusive!!! </p><p></p><p> Since our daughter-difficult child is currently sue happy, our attorney suggested we get a storage unit rental and load difficult child-daughter's crxd in there... then provide her a copy of a key through a "neutral third party" and give her a written deadline to claim her already abandoned property. </p><p></p><p>We chose the local police precinct as the "neutral third party". I got a receipt from p.d. for Key, and the paperwork I left for her to pick up (including psychiatric referral papers and a personal note from me. I kept a copy of the key for ourselves and copies of all included documents for ourselves. We explained to the officer at the desk that daughter-difficult child had been tremendously abusive towards us and we were not safe in her presence. We had an officer call her instructing her pick up key, in a sealed envelope with psychiatric referral paperwork, and written notice that whatever was left by her after a certain date we'd consider twice abandoned and discard accordingly. </p><p></p><p>I made sure to tell her in the note that I love her... well... because I do. </p><p>(Oh... how I wish I knew where the "off" switch for love and caring is!)</p><p></p><p>She picked up most of her crxp. She left behind some small things that she was uninterested in. And she made sure to leave pure garbage behind... 'cause she's awesome like that. I would have called the police if she had chosen to vandalize the unit reserved in my name. Thank God I didn't have to go there. </p><p></p><p>It is delightfully refreshing to have our home cleared of her crxpola. </p><p></p><p>Her brother... that's a different story. I've moved difficult child-ds-stuff in the garage... I'm toying with emailing to ask which charity I should donate it to... I'm sure by now it is officially Legally abandoned... It certainly is not worth much!!!! I have to investigate local laws. The local law library has been tremendously helpful... I've found I can call and leave a message about what topic I'm interested in and they'll email me related laws. (Locally the Law library is free resource, they can't interpret the law but they will send whatever laws are applicable to my circumstance. Lawyers are expensive!!!!!!!)</p><p></p><p>I thank God for daughter-Bio every day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! </p><p></p><p>(I thank God for the others too... just a little less enthusiastically lately... I'm holding out hope they'll come to their senses... but I won't risk endangering myself or my loved ones until they start to show glimpses of sanity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)</p><p></p><p>Hang in there Star!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TheyAreLegallyAdultsNow, post: 353352, member: 8405"] (((((((((((((HUGS!!!)))))))))))))) I'm sorry your DS-difficult child is so abusive!!! Since our daughter-difficult child is currently sue happy, our attorney suggested we get a storage unit rental and load difficult child-daughter's crxd in there... then provide her a copy of a key through a "neutral third party" and give her a written deadline to claim her already abandoned property. We chose the local police precinct as the "neutral third party". I got a receipt from p.d. for Key, and the paperwork I left for her to pick up (including psychiatric referral papers and a personal note from me. I kept a copy of the key for ourselves and copies of all included documents for ourselves. We explained to the officer at the desk that daughter-difficult child had been tremendously abusive towards us and we were not safe in her presence. We had an officer call her instructing her pick up key, in a sealed envelope with psychiatric referral paperwork, and written notice that whatever was left by her after a certain date we'd consider twice abandoned and discard accordingly. I made sure to tell her in the note that I love her... well... because I do. (Oh... how I wish I knew where the "off" switch for love and caring is!) She picked up most of her crxp. She left behind some small things that she was uninterested in. And she made sure to leave pure garbage behind... 'cause she's awesome like that. I would have called the police if she had chosen to vandalize the unit reserved in my name. Thank God I didn't have to go there. It is delightfully refreshing to have our home cleared of her crxpola. Her brother... that's a different story. I've moved difficult child-ds-stuff in the garage... I'm toying with emailing to ask which charity I should donate it to... I'm sure by now it is officially Legally abandoned... It certainly is not worth much!!!! I have to investigate local laws. The local law library has been tremendously helpful... I've found I can call and leave a message about what topic I'm interested in and they'll email me related laws. (Locally the Law library is free resource, they can't interpret the law but they will send whatever laws are applicable to my circumstance. Lawyers are expensive!!!!!!!) I thank God for daughter-Bio every day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (I thank God for the others too... just a little less enthusiastically lately... I'm holding out hope they'll come to their senses... but I won't risk endangering myself or my loved ones until they start to show glimpses of sanity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) Hang in there Star!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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