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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 353747" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Star...I have so been where you are. Still am sometimes.</p><p></p><p>I still fight the sinking feeling when I see a 671 number on my phone and I dont know who it is. Thats the first three numbers for the jail. Or lord I get a knot in my belly when I get a call from the hospital and I know no one should be there! All kinds of horrible thoughts go through my head. Who has been in a wreck, who has been shot? Ugh. Whats bad...normally its a call from billing or the patient reps asking how I found their customer service last time I was there! LOL. </p><p></p><p>Even now, I worry if I call Cory's number several times and I dont get an answer. I worry...why isnt he home? He should be home. Where is he? Then I tell myself...STOP. Not your business. His problems. I go back to sleep and figure he will be just fine...and he is. </p><p></p><p>I worry about Billy on the road driving. Lordy do I worry about that one! I cant do a thing about it though. I have to sit back and watch from the side lines. The boy is venturing out farther and farther. He has actually met a woman with two kids...one of them autistic! Talk about worry! Just what I need...a step-grandchild that is autistic! Gulp. Leave it to him to find that woman though...lol. </p><p></p><p>So...worrying comes natural, its how we respond to the worry that is important. You cant let Dude control your life. You sure arent controlling his. He isnt worrying about you at all! You only come into his mind when he needs something...I promise you. If you can answer his calls without obsessing about him...go for it but if they are going to make your blood pressure soar then dont. If you can just listen to him blather on as if he was some stranger who was telling tall tales and trying to sell you comic books which you werent going to buy...well that is well and good but if he is going to get your panties in a twist and cause you to get all upset, not a good idea to talk to him much. </p><p></p><p>Maybe email him or text him. He seems to have access somehow. Just a short text. Hi dude. Hope all his well. Mom. Or better yet. Hi Dude, Im in a better place. Someone will contact you for details, mom. LOL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 353747, member: 1514"] Star...I have so been where you are. Still am sometimes. I still fight the sinking feeling when I see a 671 number on my phone and I dont know who it is. Thats the first three numbers for the jail. Or lord I get a knot in my belly when I get a call from the hospital and I know no one should be there! All kinds of horrible thoughts go through my head. Who has been in a wreck, who has been shot? Ugh. Whats bad...normally its a call from billing or the patient reps asking how I found their customer service last time I was there! LOL. Even now, I worry if I call Cory's number several times and I dont get an answer. I worry...why isnt he home? He should be home. Where is he? Then I tell myself...STOP. Not your business. His problems. I go back to sleep and figure he will be just fine...and he is. I worry about Billy on the road driving. Lordy do I worry about that one! I cant do a thing about it though. I have to sit back and watch from the side lines. The boy is venturing out farther and farther. He has actually met a woman with two kids...one of them autistic! Talk about worry! Just what I need...a step-grandchild that is autistic! Gulp. Leave it to him to find that woman though...lol. So...worrying comes natural, its how we respond to the worry that is important. You cant let Dude control your life. You sure arent controlling his. He isnt worrying about you at all! You only come into his mind when he needs something...I promise you. If you can answer his calls without obsessing about him...go for it but if they are going to make your blood pressure soar then dont. If you can just listen to him blather on as if he was some stranger who was telling tall tales and trying to sell you comic books which you werent going to buy...well that is well and good but if he is going to get your panties in a twist and cause you to get all upset, not a good idea to talk to him much. Maybe email him or text him. He seems to have access somehow. Just a short text. Hi dude. Hope all his well. Mom. Or better yet. Hi Dude, Im in a better place. Someone will contact you for details, mom. LOL [/QUOTE]
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