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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 475891" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>arrrggg poor easy child. I really do get difficult child doing that, and I wish he could see that he could get much more and better quality attention another way-- but I would want to ring his sweet little neck as it goes on and on (figuratively of course). I go nuts on days when it is one oppositional thing after another. it seems anything to get under anyones skin is fair game. and once it is noticed that a button is pushed....ding ding ding ding...it will be pushed over and over. </p><p></p><p>This is probably a dumb idea...and it is not to suggest you dont reward easy child... Would it just antagonize difficult child or would he really interpret this wrong:.... If after every single positive thing that easy child does he gets a reward. (following a direction, ignoring teasing, helping to clean, being polite, holding a door open, I dont know...anything...) Maybe use the pbip idea for easy child instead of difficult child, catch easy child on every kind word, kind deed, following directions, etc. It would never work if he took it as you love easy child more than me, but just wondering if the things easy child did were made a big deal of, if a seed would be planted???? (can so backfire I would think if he is really on edge emotionally)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 475891, member: 12886"] arrrggg poor easy child. I really do get difficult child doing that, and I wish he could see that he could get much more and better quality attention another way-- but I would want to ring his sweet little neck as it goes on and on (figuratively of course). I go nuts on days when it is one oppositional thing after another. it seems anything to get under anyones skin is fair game. and once it is noticed that a button is pushed....ding ding ding ding...it will be pushed over and over. This is probably a dumb idea...and it is not to suggest you dont reward easy child... Would it just antagonize difficult child or would he really interpret this wrong:.... If after every single positive thing that easy child does he gets a reward. (following a direction, ignoring teasing, helping to clean, being polite, holding a door open, I dont know...anything...) Maybe use the pbip idea for easy child instead of difficult child, catch easy child on every kind word, kind deed, following directions, etc. It would never work if he took it as you love easy child more than me, but just wondering if the things easy child did were made a big deal of, if a seed would be planted???? (can so backfire I would think if he is really on edge emotionally) [/QUOTE]
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