Well went see difficult child today, yet another visit of arguing. Instead of trying to talk all did was complain as usual. Dad tried to talk to him, but that didn't go well either. (Dad ended up walking out) I told difficult child that I know this is hard on him, but he needs to wake up and see WE are all he's got!!! His so called friends don't even ask about him. Still wants me to get a lawyer to get him out--WHAT THE.... He doesn't get it when we wanted him home he didn't want to be here. GOD I JUST DON"T UNDERSTAND HIM. It makes me so angry that he wastes every visit on this crap!!! I guess we'll know this week where he'll be going, I'll keep you posted. Thanks for listening all. I just needed to vent Trying to stand strong.