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UAN.... did you tell H your news/decision?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 500729" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Motel. NOW. YOU focus on YOU, sounds like husband needs to go focus on himself for a while before he is healthy to be around. Let him worry about the cost of the motel with you NOT around to hear it.</p><p></p><p>I am PROUD of you for going to the inpatient program. I am VERY proud of you. I know htis is HARD. If husband cannot grasp it, maybe he needs to be alone a while. You cannot worry about ANYONE until you are healthy and not dying. Period. I hope the hospital has a family program that husband will attend. He NEEDS it. Guy do NOT get it when we are sick. Mine is close to awesome about it but he still has said and done a LOT of things that made things worse for us, esp for me. </p><p></p><p>Get the help you need. Please. (((((hugs)))))</p><p></p><p>Ignore husband when he is like this. As I tell my kids, "Sometimes Daddy is for decoration." </p><p></p><p>Yes, I know. NOT wife-like or supportive. But with my husband? It keeps the kids safe. From a LOT of dangerous things like burning down the house and eating spoiled food that is obviously spoiled because husband refused to put it up after he said he would.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 500729, member: 1233"] Motel. NOW. YOU focus on YOU, sounds like husband needs to go focus on himself for a while before he is healthy to be around. Let him worry about the cost of the motel with you NOT around to hear it. I am PROUD of you for going to the inpatient program. I am VERY proud of you. I know htis is HARD. If husband cannot grasp it, maybe he needs to be alone a while. You cannot worry about ANYONE until you are healthy and not dying. Period. I hope the hospital has a family program that husband will attend. He NEEDS it. Guy do NOT get it when we are sick. Mine is close to awesome about it but he still has said and done a LOT of things that made things worse for us, esp for me. Get the help you need. Please. (((((hugs))))) Ignore husband when he is like this. As I tell my kids, "Sometimes Daddy is for decoration." Yes, I know. NOT wife-like or supportive. But with my husband? It keeps the kids safe. From a LOT of dangerous things like burning down the house and eating spoiled food that is obviously spoiled because husband refused to put it up after he said he would. [/QUOTE]
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