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<blockquote data-quote="Californiablonde" data-source="post: 598552" data-attributes="member: 2196"><p>I knew her son had ADHD when we were friends but she always told me he was on medications and stable. Now I know that's not true. To be honest I always secretly thought he had something else besides ADHD. When he was about three years old he used to have rages quite similar to difficult child's. He would get violent and throw chairs, etc just like she did. He also had sleep issues. But my friend told me that he outgrew it. Now it sounds like he is having the same issues. His father is not in the picture. He was an adult difficult child. He was in and out of jail, a drug user, and very verbally abusive to my friend. They were never together as a couple. They were sex buddies that met through a mutual friend. My friend told me he was psychotic and very verbally abusive but the sex was good so she was using him. </p><p></p><p> At the time she was seeing him she was jealous of me for having kids. She was in her thirties and I had already had my kids in my twenties. She was getting desperate for a baby so she purposely got pregnant. Her plan was to get pregnant by this man then disown him and raise the baby on her own. So that's what she did. She got pregnant and was ecstatic. She moved away, changed her phone number, and broke off all contact with the father. She put unknown on his birth certificate. So now she has a difficult child that has inherited who knows what kind of issues from his biological father. I feel bad for the kid. He didn't ask for any of this. Now she could really use my support but she insisted she wants nothing to do with me for any reason. I asked her to be Facebook friends at least so we could keep in contact with each other's kids but she declined. It's too bad it had to happen this way but I don't need toxic people in my life that hate me. So good riddance to her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Californiablonde, post: 598552, member: 2196"] I knew her son had ADHD when we were friends but she always told me he was on medications and stable. Now I know that's not true. To be honest I always secretly thought he had something else besides ADHD. When he was about three years old he used to have rages quite similar to difficult child's. He would get violent and throw chairs, etc just like she did. He also had sleep issues. But my friend told me that he outgrew it. Now it sounds like he is having the same issues. His father is not in the picture. He was an adult difficult child. He was in and out of jail, a drug user, and very verbally abusive to my friend. They were never together as a couple. They were sex buddies that met through a mutual friend. My friend told me he was psychotic and very verbally abusive but the sex was good so she was using him. At the time she was seeing him she was jealous of me for having kids. She was in her thirties and I had already had my kids in my twenties. She was getting desperate for a baby so she purposely got pregnant. Her plan was to get pregnant by this man then disown him and raise the baby on her own. So that's what she did. She got pregnant and was ecstatic. She moved away, changed her phone number, and broke off all contact with the father. She put unknown on his birth certificate. So now she has a difficult child that has inherited who knows what kind of issues from his biological father. I feel bad for the kid. He didn't ask for any of this. Now she could really use my support but she insisted she wants nothing to do with me for any reason. I asked her to be Facebook friends at least so we could keep in contact with each other's kids but she declined. It's too bad it had to happen this way but I don't need toxic people in my life that hate me. So good riddance to her. [/QUOTE]
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