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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 114846" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Bottom line is she's your child, your decisions and you know what is best for your child. It sounds like they think she just needs lessons on how to become an adult. If it were that simple, you wouldn't have had to remove her from your home nor would her grandparents have had to say no more when she stayed with them.</p><p></p><p>You might remind your friends that their home is not the first home she "visited" and the lack of success her grandparents ultimately had. She may just be honeymooning. The totally different environment may be helping her for now. Who knows? The reality is that the odds are her good behavior there is not permanent.</p><p></p><p>First and foremost, do NOT sign any guardianship papers unless she is so far away from you that you really cannot make the decisions for her or, if necessary, take her to doctors, etc. If your friends get guardianship, your rights are pretty much gone and they can do what they feel is best. You can have documents drafted that give them the right for medical treatment but any other decisions, including school, are up to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 114846, member: 3626"] Bottom line is she's your child, your decisions and you know what is best for your child. It sounds like they think she just needs lessons on how to become an adult. If it were that simple, you wouldn't have had to remove her from your home nor would her grandparents have had to say no more when she stayed with them. You might remind your friends that their home is not the first home she "visited" and the lack of success her grandparents ultimately had. She may just be honeymooning. The totally different environment may be helping her for now. Who knows? The reality is that the odds are her good behavior there is not permanent. First and foremost, do NOT sign any guardianship papers unless she is so far away from you that you really cannot make the decisions for her or, if necessary, take her to doctors, etc. If your friends get guardianship, your rights are pretty much gone and they can do what they feel is best. You can have documents drafted that give them the right for medical treatment but any other decisions, including school, are up to you. [/QUOTE]
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