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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 411065" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>I totally understand how any girls mother would cringe at my son being their daughters boyfriend, but.......as I have seen over the years, it takes two!! Your son cannot be solely blamed for whatever negative stuff went on, or may still be going on in this relationship. She could not accept his phone calls, have nothing to do with him, but something tells me she isn't doing that, but when things don't go the way she wants, it's all his fault and mommy and daddy see that also. </p><p>I would think twice about calling her mother. You know how you feel about this and what good is it going to do if you call her and she isn't all warm and fuzzy about what you have or haven't done?? </p><p>I loved my difficult child's new girlfriend when I first met her and now from what he tells me, she started using because of him and he blames all her choices on himself. Her own mother is an addict and also blames my difficult child for everything her daughter is doing now, but can't see anything she added to this. Lets see, you are 50 years old and haven't smoked pot for a whole 6 months, and my difficult child is a bad influence??? hmmmmmmm!! They are living in a hotel, my difficult child is working 40 hrs and she works 16 at shoprite and her mother blames my son because her daughter isn't eating right!! </p><p>Maybe it's my own anger showing, but I wouldn't call her, unless you really really think it might have a positive outcome and you would feel better in the end.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 411065, member: 2442"] I totally understand how any girls mother would cringe at my son being their daughters boyfriend, but.......as I have seen over the years, it takes two!! Your son cannot be solely blamed for whatever negative stuff went on, or may still be going on in this relationship. She could not accept his phone calls, have nothing to do with him, but something tells me she isn't doing that, but when things don't go the way she wants, it's all his fault and mommy and daddy see that also. I would think twice about calling her mother. You know how you feel about this and what good is it going to do if you call her and she isn't all warm and fuzzy about what you have or haven't done?? I loved my difficult child's new girlfriend when I first met her and now from what he tells me, she started using because of him and he blames all her choices on himself. Her own mother is an addict and also blames my difficult child for everything her daughter is doing now, but can't see anything she added to this. Lets see, you are 50 years old and haven't smoked pot for a whole 6 months, and my difficult child is a bad influence??? hmmmmmmm!! They are living in a hotel, my difficult child is working 40 hrs and she works 16 at shoprite and her mother blames my son because her daughter isn't eating right!! Maybe it's my own anger showing, but I wouldn't call her, unless you really really think it might have a positive outcome and you would feel better in the end. [/QUOTE]
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