I have had so many people tell me how difficult child its not that bad. Yes, it could always be worse. When I explain that there are a lot of situations that they do not know about, and I don't want to relive. But when it comes to close family and friends, that is when it really upsets me... An outsider has the audacity to say 'He wouldn't do that here' or 'He wouldn't do that to me'. Yeah he would... He does it to everyone else. Then... I got the 'I'll take him for a week, and he'll be fine when he goes home'. REALLY!?