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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 240233" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I'm sorry you guys are coping with unnecessary stress. Truthfully I have not exprienced anything similar so I can't comment from experience. In fact, lol, the only outside interference I ever had was "gentle suggestions" that "perhaps" I wasn't discipling my first difficult child enough. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite8" alt=":D" title="Big Grin :D" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":D" /></p><p> </p><p>on the other hand I do offer this free advice to anyone who joins the CD family who has a easy child younger child. Do not assume that any family member is unscathed by the stress of difficult child living. Time and time and time again over the years I have seen and heard people say "thank heavens we have easy child who is always a joy to be around" etc. It is either impossible or close to impossible for anyone to live with chaos and not be scared. Perfect kids usually are trying "to spare" the family stress by stifling their own issues. It may take ten years or twenty or more but the fear and frustration and anger will surface. Even if she does not want to go...I strongly suggest that you find a compatible therapist that your easy child can see periodically.There is a teeney, tiny chance that her teacher caught a glimpse of her concerns and jumped the gun. Maybe, just maybe, the intentions were really honorable.</p><p> </p><p>Welcome to the CD family. You will get a bunch of different perspectives around here but all of us are here to support you. Hugs. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 240233, member: 35"] I'm sorry you guys are coping with unnecessary stress. Truthfully I have not exprienced anything similar so I can't comment from experience. In fact, lol, the only outside interference I ever had was "gentle suggestions" that "perhaps" I wasn't discipling my first difficult child enough. :happy: on the other hand I do offer this free advice to anyone who joins the CD family who has a easy child younger child. Do not assume that any family member is unscathed by the stress of difficult child living. Time and time and time again over the years I have seen and heard people say "thank heavens we have easy child who is always a joy to be around" etc. It is either impossible or close to impossible for anyone to live with chaos and not be scared. Perfect kids usually are trying "to spare" the family stress by stifling their own issues. It may take ten years or twenty or more but the fear and frustration and anger will surface. Even if she does not want to go...I strongly suggest that you find a compatible therapist that your easy child can see periodically.There is a teeney, tiny chance that her teacher caught a glimpse of her concerns and jumped the gun. Maybe, just maybe, the intentions were really honorable. Welcome to the CD family. You will get a bunch of different perspectives around here but all of us are here to support you. Hugs. DDD [/QUOTE]
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