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Uncertain future but handling things......
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 461569" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>You are in the first stages of greiving and everything you expressed is normal. The "I should have's". the "he should have's" the "why didn't I's" and the "why didn't he's" The disappointment and fear that exists if also "real". Sadly there is no fast forward to get past the emotions you are experiencing but history proves that time will lessen your pain.</p><p></p><p>Each of us feels differently about a sudden death but I believe it was a blessing that he went quickly in the comfort of his own home. There was no prolonged pain, no multiple trips in and out of the hospital and no excess triggers for his anxiety. My Dad passed unexpectedly and quickly. It has always been a comfort to me to know that he left quickly and with dignity. I hope in the long run you will be able to look back and feel grateful he was spared more trauma.</p><p></p><p>Most of all I remain steadfast in my support and like the others are thinking of you daily. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 461569, member: 35"] You are in the first stages of greiving and everything you expressed is normal. The "I should have's". the "he should have's" the "why didn't I's" and the "why didn't he's" The disappointment and fear that exists if also "real". Sadly there is no fast forward to get past the emotions you are experiencing but history proves that time will lessen your pain. Each of us feels differently about a sudden death but I believe it was a blessing that he went quickly in the comfort of his own home. There was no prolonged pain, no multiple trips in and out of the hospital and no excess triggers for his anxiety. My Dad passed unexpectedly and quickly. It has always been a comfort to me to know that he left quickly and with dignity. I hope in the long run you will be able to look back and feel grateful he was spared more trauma. Most of all I remain steadfast in my support and like the others are thinking of you daily. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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