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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 461674" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p><em>I miss him so much it hurts physically. And I have got to get his things out of here or put up because every time I see something of his.....especially an article of clothing or something, it's like having someone kick my legs out from under me. Yet as I bag his stuff, it makes me feel guilty, like I'm trying to wipe away his existence simply because I can't deal with it. I keep waiting for him to fuss at one of the dogs or Bruce. I've been avoiding the livingroom because every time I step in there I expect him to be sitting in his chair, and silly as it sounds, when he's not my heart drops through the floor and it hits me again. </em></p><p> <em></em></p><p><em>I have guilt over the 3 days he was having symptoms of the heart attack and I didn't take him to the ER. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p>Yes, yes, yes. Normal, normal, normal. But, oh, it was so hard to read your note, I cannot imagine how hard it is to live through it all.</p><p></p><p>by the way, having gone through my cousin's taxes--and finding her 5 yrs behind on state and fed income tax--I know what you're going through. Do NOT let your blood pressure go up. Turn yourself into a robot. Expect to be fined, but be certain to write a note or include an obit with-every filing you do, so that the person who handles that filing will know. Sometimes they give you a break and won't fine you. </p><p></p><p>Oh, my gut is hurting just from reading your note. I SO know what you are feeling. And I've not had to go through this with-my husband, but other family members, so I know it's intensified for you.</p><p></p><p>Many many hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 461674, member: 3419"] [I]I miss him so much it hurts physically. And I have got to get his things out of here or put up because every time I see something of his.....especially an article of clothing or something, it's like having someone kick my legs out from under me. Yet as I bag his stuff, it makes me feel guilty, like I'm trying to wipe away his existence simply because I can't deal with it. I keep waiting for him to fuss at one of the dogs or Bruce. I've been avoiding the livingroom because every time I step in there I expect him to be sitting in his chair, and silly as it sounds, when he's not my heart drops through the floor and it hits me again. I have guilt over the 3 days he was having symptoms of the heart attack and I didn't take him to the ER. [/I] Yes, yes, yes. Normal, normal, normal. But, oh, it was so hard to read your note, I cannot imagine how hard it is to live through it all. by the way, having gone through my cousin's taxes--and finding her 5 yrs behind on state and fed income tax--I know what you're going through. Do NOT let your blood pressure go up. Turn yourself into a robot. Expect to be fined, but be certain to write a note or include an obit with-every filing you do, so that the person who handles that filing will know. Sometimes they give you a break and won't fine you. Oh, my gut is hurting just from reading your note. I SO know what you are feeling. And I've not had to go through this with-my husband, but other family members, so I know it's intensified for you. Many many hugs. [/QUOTE]
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