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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 461678" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Linda, there are certain things I'm holding on to, even though at the moment it's really hard to do so. Simply because I know I may feel the need to have them later. But the bulk is being bagged up to be donated, and it will probably take a while to get it there. And yeah, we're having password issues as well. We can't delete his fb acct because no one knows the password. We can't get into his email, again, no one knows the passwords. I've tried everything I could think of that he'd use, and nope. We tried the password questions for forgotten passwords......and answers I know should be correct aren't so even that isn't working.</p><p></p><p>The visit with Stang and Step was nice and they delivered board family cards and I thank you for them. Actually they left just a short while ago. And I got to talk to Star via phone too which was an added bonus. I found I could talk about certain things a little easier. They brought me a framed photo of husband and I that I will treasure always.</p><p></p><p>I'd have been able to say today was a fairly good day, except Katie has decided this has got to be all about her now. I think I may have mentioned it in PE or not, I can't remember, but last week Nichole told katie off in a huge way over absolutely everything. I didn't think a lot about it when she told me about it, because I've said the same things to her (more tactfully) myself several times. Then today I asked katie if she wanted to go up with easy child and I to pay for the plot so she could see her grandparents graves separate from the memorial. Next thing I know I've got a long mail about how she really didn't want to say anything or drag me into it but Nichole was mad at her, then proceded to tell me everything with a few embellishments added in, and she didn't think she was welcome in Nichole's home. Which ticked me off because you don't tell someone you don't want to drag them into something, and then do exactly that, and a completely inappropriate time. She could've said her and Nichole had had a tiff and did I think it would be uncomfortable or something. But no, just a long whine basically about how mean Nichole had been. Nichole blasted her over M exposing himself that last time as well as a ton of other things. Katie made the mistake of telling me that she knew he hadn't........well, so I told her that I'd actually printed out the page in case the issue had come up and she needed to see it to believe it. But yeah. She's all maybe she shouldn't come to the service because Nichole is mad at her. I pointed out to her, Nichole basically said the same as I've already told her, that we get frustrated because we happen to care about her and that's what family's do. That you can be mad at someone and still manage to love and care for them. sheesh </p><p></p><p>I still haven't received an answer about monday. Nor will I ask again. And she's not told me if she's going to the memorial or not. If she is, since she'll be riding with me, she'll be going to Nichole's whether she likes it or not. And at this point, I really could care less whether she goes or not, that's up to her. </p><p></p><p>I had to stop Nichole from blasting her a second time today for sending me that mail as it was. But I have a strong suspicion that katie will be blasted by both her sisters come next saturday.</p><p></p><p>Heaven forbid we could get through this without gfgdom rearing it's head, I swear.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 461678, member: 84"] Linda, there are certain things I'm holding on to, even though at the moment it's really hard to do so. Simply because I know I may feel the need to have them later. But the bulk is being bagged up to be donated, and it will probably take a while to get it there. And yeah, we're having password issues as well. We can't delete his fb acct because no one knows the password. We can't get into his email, again, no one knows the passwords. I've tried everything I could think of that he'd use, and nope. We tried the password questions for forgotten passwords......and answers I know should be correct aren't so even that isn't working. The visit with Stang and Step was nice and they delivered board family cards and I thank you for them. Actually they left just a short while ago. And I got to talk to Star via phone too which was an added bonus. I found I could talk about certain things a little easier. They brought me a framed photo of husband and I that I will treasure always. I'd have been able to say today was a fairly good day, except Katie has decided this has got to be all about her now. I think I may have mentioned it in PE or not, I can't remember, but last week Nichole told katie off in a huge way over absolutely everything. I didn't think a lot about it when she told me about it, because I've said the same things to her (more tactfully) myself several times. Then today I asked katie if she wanted to go up with easy child and I to pay for the plot so she could see her grandparents graves separate from the memorial. Next thing I know I've got a long mail about how she really didn't want to say anything or drag me into it but Nichole was mad at her, then proceded to tell me everything with a few embellishments added in, and she didn't think she was welcome in Nichole's home. Which ticked me off because you don't tell someone you don't want to drag them into something, and then do exactly that, and a completely inappropriate time. She could've said her and Nichole had had a tiff and did I think it would be uncomfortable or something. But no, just a long whine basically about how mean Nichole had been. Nichole blasted her over M exposing himself that last time as well as a ton of other things. Katie made the mistake of telling me that she knew he hadn't........well, so I told her that I'd actually printed out the page in case the issue had come up and she needed to see it to believe it. But yeah. She's all maybe she shouldn't come to the service because Nichole is mad at her. I pointed out to her, Nichole basically said the same as I've already told her, that we get frustrated because we happen to care about her and that's what family's do. That you can be mad at someone and still manage to love and care for them. sheesh I still haven't received an answer about monday. Nor will I ask again. And she's not told me if she's going to the memorial or not. If she is, since she'll be riding with me, she'll be going to Nichole's whether she likes it or not. And at this point, I really could care less whether she goes or not, that's up to her. I had to stop Nichole from blasting her a second time today for sending me that mail as it was. But I have a strong suspicion that katie will be blasted by both her sisters come next saturday. Heaven forbid we could get through this without gfgdom rearing it's head, I swear. [/QUOTE]
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