Thanks Copa
It took me a while to get it that my son and anyone else for that matter has a right to their own story, no matter what the reality is. If anyone see's me as someone who I am not then it should be okay as long as I have put a good effort in. But these weird situations, which thankfully don't happen often, I feel like it's not okay and go into defense mode. I'm still working on just letting things be...
Oye, with the health issues, maybe one day they will value their bodies.
I don't know if it was you or someone else who had posted something similar recently but from that during the last week or so I started talking to myself about how I really am and how I really act and have acted. It has helped except the times I wonder if my reality is just as messed up as my son's.
Yep, it's like if I allow any contact I'm just allowing him to continue as usual.
I hope so and I hope you are doing well these days. Hope you have many times when you are engaged and happy without worrying about your son in the background.