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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 705093" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Letting anyone else define us makes for a horrible life, dependent on how we judge the person's plight that we</p><p>picked to own our soul. Even a mother and her beloved child can not live for the other. Grieving is not fun but it allows us to move on. I don't believe we were meant to teach our kids their entire lives how they should behave. If we were meant to do that then it would work. It doesn't.</p><p></p><p>Another thing I let go of was anger at my grown kids. I understand Gone Boy and his inability to bond since he did not join our family until he was six. I understand that oldest son is who he is largely due to his inherited temperament. What someone else does doesn't taint me or make me better.</p><p></p><p>I hope your Christmas was good. Mine was. I have learned not to over value holidays. That's another lesson learned.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 705093, member: 1550"] Letting anyone else define us makes for a horrible life, dependent on how we judge the person's plight that we picked to own our soul. Even a mother and her beloved child can not live for the other. Grieving is not fun but it allows us to move on. I don't believe we were meant to teach our kids their entire lives how they should behave. If we were meant to do that then it would work. It doesn't. Another thing I let go of was anger at my grown kids. I understand Gone Boy and his inability to bond since he did not join our family until he was six. I understand that oldest son is who he is largely due to his inherited temperament. What someone else does doesn't taint me or make me better. I hope your Christmas was good. Mine was. I have learned not to over value holidays. That's another lesson learned. [/QUOTE]
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