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Update - don't know what I was thinking....
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<blockquote data-quote="CrazyinVA" data-source="post: 474941" data-attributes="member: 1157"><p>I'm so sorry. I know how hard this is. I really think you went above and beyond here, though... if she can't get up for the test, how is she going to get up for work? </p><p></p><p>This is definitely one of those cases where you're "working harder than she is." She seems to have no interest in changing her life, at all. You are giving rides, providing phones, giving advice, and none of it is appreciated or even heard. She's got it pretty good right now, with you doing all the work. What is *she* doing in all this, besides demanding things from you, and then b****ing at you when you do them for her? I think it's time to take a huge step back. </p><p></p><p>I know it's painful. I know the "what ifs" are frightening and can drive you mad. But what you're doing now, isn't working, anyway, is it? She's not going to have some magic lightbulb moment because of what you say to her or do for her. She needs to come to that moment on her own. Save your energy. You're right, the more you know, the more it hurts. Step back. </p><p></p><p>Hugs... it hoovers. It hoovers big time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CrazyinVA, post: 474941, member: 1157"] I'm so sorry. I know how hard this is. I really think you went above and beyond here, though... if she can't get up for the test, how is she going to get up for work? This is definitely one of those cases where you're "working harder than she is." She seems to have no interest in changing her life, at all. You are giving rides, providing phones, giving advice, and none of it is appreciated or even heard. She's got it pretty good right now, with you doing all the work. What is *she* doing in all this, besides demanding things from you, and then b****ing at you when you do them for her? I think it's time to take a huge step back. I know it's painful. I know the "what ifs" are frightening and can drive you mad. But what you're doing now, isn't working, anyway, is it? She's not going to have some magic lightbulb moment because of what you say to her or do for her. She needs to come to that moment on her own. Save your energy. You're right, the more you know, the more it hurts. Step back. Hugs... it hoovers. It hoovers big time. [/QUOTE]
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