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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 454650" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>DJ, the other part of this is that even though PO currently says he's going to reccomend this transitional place, I don't trust him to follow thru but even if he does, it has to get approved for funding from the bigger "pool" and that's doubtful but if that goes thru, then the people from that place interview difficult child to see if he's the "right fit", according to PO. So it's really adding up to me that PO is just using all this to manipulate me into taking difficult child straight home. And again, I'll be the one having to break difficult child's heart because I'm going to have to write him now and tell him AGAIN. I'm just going to get prepared to go to court again. And of course, dss will be used to punish me. And I'm almost certain, if difficult child goes to dss, he is officially released from Department of Juvenile Justice, meaning he won't have parole requirements at all. So basicly, the parole requirements are meant to be for the parent, not the juvenile offender. They provide no services anyway- if a parent says or brings proof that a kid needs MH treatment, for instance, they just order the parent to take the kid and sign a release so they can talk to the therapist and tell the therapist what to work on and verify that the parent is doing it, I swear! And I've given up on them understanding how all this enables a kid to do worse- shoot, you have to understand what "enable" means first.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 454650, member: 3699"] DJ, the other part of this is that even though PO currently says he's going to reccomend this transitional place, I don't trust him to follow thru but even if he does, it has to get approved for funding from the bigger "pool" and that's doubtful but if that goes thru, then the people from that place interview difficult child to see if he's the "right fit", according to PO. So it's really adding up to me that PO is just using all this to manipulate me into taking difficult child straight home. And again, I'll be the one having to break difficult child's heart because I'm going to have to write him now and tell him AGAIN. I'm just going to get prepared to go to court again. And of course, dss will be used to punish me. And I'm almost certain, if difficult child goes to dss, he is officially released from Department of Juvenile Justice, meaning he won't have parole requirements at all. So basicly, the parole requirements are meant to be for the parent, not the juvenile offender. They provide no services anyway- if a parent says or brings proof that a kid needs MH treatment, for instance, they just order the parent to take the kid and sign a release so they can talk to the therapist and tell the therapist what to work on and verify that the parent is doing it, I swear! And I've given up on them understanding how all this enables a kid to do worse- shoot, you have to understand what "enable" means first. [/QUOTE]
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