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Update of difficult child and his PO- the short version
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 454901" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>DDD, I put Boys Town on hold when I saw difficult child continuing to misbehave in Department of Juvenile Justice- including the assault on staff. It's not completely off the table- my table, that is- but first, I found out they had a HUGE bust for being a sex porn/prostitution ring some years ago, I would have to get permission from the courts to transfer difficult child there, I would have to transport difficult child myself (meaning difficult child wouldn't run or assault or rob me, etc, while in transport), and if difficult child breaks a law and gets himself kicked out of that place, I foot the bill and he is stuck out there or I have to get courts to allow me to go get him, if I can find him. Also, with all that, Department of Juvenile Justice would have to release difficult child to me, then me get difficult child accepted there, then transport him. I just decided that if I could trust difficult child enough right now to believe he really wanted this and it would help him, it would be worth the battle with the courts to try, although I'd probably lose just like with the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) effort, but I would try and pay for it. However, I don't think difficult child is thinking beyond what he wants the day he gets released and that story suddenly changed to wanting to come back to live with me the day I wrote and told him he needed to be thinking about what he wanted at 18yo and what he needed to do now in order to have that lined up and that PO was at a point in time where he had to put in his recoommendation for difficult child's placement and parole plan to his super..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 454901, member: 3699"] DDD, I put Boys Town on hold when I saw difficult child continuing to misbehave in Department of Juvenile Justice- including the assault on staff. It's not completely off the table- my table, that is- but first, I found out they had a HUGE bust for being a sex porn/prostitution ring some years ago, I would have to get permission from the courts to transfer difficult child there, I would have to transport difficult child myself (meaning difficult child wouldn't run or assault or rob me, etc, while in transport), and if difficult child breaks a law and gets himself kicked out of that place, I foot the bill and he is stuck out there or I have to get courts to allow me to go get him, if I can find him. Also, with all that, Department of Juvenile Justice would have to release difficult child to me, then me get difficult child accepted there, then transport him. I just decided that if I could trust difficult child enough right now to believe he really wanted this and it would help him, it would be worth the battle with the courts to try, although I'd probably lose just like with the Residential Treatment Center (RTC) effort, but I would try and pay for it. However, I don't think difficult child is thinking beyond what he wants the day he gets released and that story suddenly changed to wanting to come back to live with me the day I wrote and told him he needed to be thinking about what he wanted at 18yo and what he needed to do now in order to have that lined up and that PO was at a point in time where he had to put in his recoommendation for difficult child's placement and parole plan to his super.. [/QUOTE]
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