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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 19308" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>Barbara, I agree with you 100%</p><p></p><p>I will keep posting ~ it keeps me sane</p><p></p><p>I am feeling much different this time,before it was an agony of choices-do I put up with him? or tell him to leave? now I know I have told him this is it, change or else.</p><p>If he really had hit bottom, I do believe he wouldn't be acting the way he is now.</p><p></p><p>His life is his choice ~ we do not and will not put up with his actions. He can either live by the rules or live elsewhere and what ever he chooses will be fine with me. </p><p></p><p>I am past the struggle of thinking somehow I can change him, he was raised different ~ the son I see is not the son I raised.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes it is heartbreaking and I am disappointed as I have ever been but he has not suffered enough to want change. He still thinks he can do the same song and dance and get the same results he used to get.</p><p></p><p></p><p>He called his po, she told him he could just come in once a mth to make a 300 dollar payment ~ he couldn't come up with 75 dollars on the 9th, but he can just come in the end of the mth with 300 ~ yea, I am sure that will happen.</p><p></p><p>One day at a time ~ I still thank God daily for me finding this site!!!!</p><p></p><p>You all are priceless!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 19308, member: 2389"] Barbara, I agree with you 100% I will keep posting ~ it keeps me sane I am feeling much different this time,before it was an agony of choices-do I put up with him? or tell him to leave? now I know I have told him this is it, change or else. If he really had hit bottom, I do believe he wouldn't be acting the way he is now. His life is his choice ~ we do not and will not put up with his actions. He can either live by the rules or live elsewhere and what ever he chooses will be fine with me. I am past the struggle of thinking somehow I can change him, he was raised different ~ the son I see is not the son I raised. Yes it is heartbreaking and I am disappointed as I have ever been but he has not suffered enough to want change. He still thinks he can do the same song and dance and get the same results he used to get. He called his po, she told him he could just come in once a mth to make a 300 dollar payment ~ he couldn't come up with 75 dollars on the 9th, but he can just come in the end of the mth with 300 ~ yea, I am sure that will happen. One day at a time ~ I still thank God daily for me finding this site!!!! You all are priceless!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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