Sick employees at the shop and making easy child's v-ball practice and tourney's yesterday have left me frazzled! I missed my cyber time with you all!! I won't go into every little thing that difficult child has done wrong. I will say that I have taken the time to stand back and look at the person he has become and it is scarey and sad. He has no respect for others. He leaves a trail around the house behind him. He allows his dog to leave a trail behind her as well. (yes, I let him come home with a dog ) one example; part of easy child's uniform is underarmour (tight fitting long sleeve, cost 50.00 for the shirt)fri night difficult child wanted to wear the shirt out, easy child said no, she was getting everything ready for sat morn and we had to leave at 5am for her tourney. As we were getting ready for bed easy child called me in her room. difficult child had gotten a blk shirt and put it where easy child had her uniform shirt and he had taken her uniform shirt and wore it out. I was so disgusted with him, I had no way to find him that night and I was exhausted from working without help all day so I did my best to get some sleep to be ready for sat morn. I went in his room at 4 when I got up and he had her shirt on his chair, it smelled clean (I have no idea if he washed it or what) I woke him up but I don't think he heard a word I said, so we left. We got in very late last night and he was gone when we got here. My house was a mess!! I got up this morning and our side door was open, it is 27 degrees outside. Today is the day for our contract, First chance we have had that we weren't running somewhere with easy child This will be a very interesting day ~ mom has already had enough!!