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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 129719" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Suz, </p><p></p><p>I am done. Last night - it became VERY apparent that he's got a grudge against me - on his own he's secretly contacted my x's family. They've been filling his head with **** you just WOULD NOT believe - like.....he's a really nice man. He's a likeable person. He has a small drug problem. And my favorite - We wrote you and sent you money - for years - your mom must have a fortune. </p><p></p><p>I never even asked for child support - and I saved every letter and card his gma sent even the money was still in them. I saved the one letter his dad sent - and Dude had seen and opened every one as they came in the mail. But because he spends every cent he gets - and there was still $12.00 in the cards - I MUST have thrown all the others away - </p><p></p><p>When I said "yes, that's it - I just kept these that you opened to prove to you that in 12 years THIS was ALL THEY EVER CARED TO SEND - and never sent me one damn thin dime for YOUR CARE - so I MUST be the bad guy. </p><p></p><p>And then he said "Well my DAD doesn't have anything to live for." and I said nothing. Then he chased me out of the room with the envelopes and cards screaming "I caught you, I caught you, I caught YOU - see????" and I said - I showed you ALL those cards and letters right before you went to the group home in Sept. Don't you remember?" </p><p></p><p>He stood in the hallway hell bent on making sure he FINALLY caught me in a lie about the situation I took him out of.....and once again - failed. </p><p></p><p>Then he said "you weren't ever abused either.....they told me." and THAT folks was the final straw. I left. All I remember was seeing black and knowing if I didn't leave I was going to physically slap the first thing that came into arms length. I don't care where they put him. I've been trying to advocate to get him a nicer group home and a place where he can get a job and go to school, be closer to us- and today for the first time in our history - I said I don't give a hang where you put him - but if he isn't out of here by Friday night - he can go back to jail and all I have to do is tell DF to take him. And I mean it - I am done. </p><p></p><p>I don't have those - OH if I say that I'll resent it in 2 days feeling - I am beyond numb, and DF has only said - "I hope this is it for you, I can't take another minute of how he treats you." And he has nothing to worry about. </p><p></p><p> In true difficult child fashion - he calls me at work today to get his caseworkers phone number - and I said "I don't have it" and he said "You don't have my caseworkers number???" and I said again "Nope - don't have it" and he said "I'm trying to fill out a job application " and I said "Good for you" and hung up. </p><p></p><p>Nope ladies - I think this boat sailed.....USS Numbness is afloat.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 129719, member: 4964"] Suz, I am done. Last night - it became VERY apparent that he's got a grudge against me - on his own he's secretly contacted my x's family. They've been filling his head with **** you just WOULD NOT believe - like.....he's a really nice man. He's a likeable person. He has a small drug problem. And my favorite - We wrote you and sent you money - for years - your mom must have a fortune. I never even asked for child support - and I saved every letter and card his gma sent even the money was still in them. I saved the one letter his dad sent - and Dude had seen and opened every one as they came in the mail. But because he spends every cent he gets - and there was still $12.00 in the cards - I MUST have thrown all the others away - When I said "yes, that's it - I just kept these that you opened to prove to you that in 12 years THIS was ALL THEY EVER CARED TO SEND - and never sent me one damn thin dime for YOUR CARE - so I MUST be the bad guy. And then he said "Well my DAD doesn't have anything to live for." and I said nothing. Then he chased me out of the room with the envelopes and cards screaming "I caught you, I caught you, I caught YOU - see????" and I said - I showed you ALL those cards and letters right before you went to the group home in Sept. Don't you remember?" He stood in the hallway hell bent on making sure he FINALLY caught me in a lie about the situation I took him out of.....and once again - failed. Then he said "you weren't ever abused either.....they told me." and THAT folks was the final straw. I left. All I remember was seeing black and knowing if I didn't leave I was going to physically slap the first thing that came into arms length. I don't care where they put him. I've been trying to advocate to get him a nicer group home and a place where he can get a job and go to school, be closer to us- and today for the first time in our history - I said I don't give a hang where you put him - but if he isn't out of here by Friday night - he can go back to jail and all I have to do is tell DF to take him. And I mean it - I am done. I don't have those - OH if I say that I'll resent it in 2 days feeling - I am beyond numb, and DF has only said - "I hope this is it for you, I can't take another minute of how he treats you." And he has nothing to worry about. In true difficult child fashion - he calls me at work today to get his caseworkers phone number - and I said "I don't have it" and he said "You don't have my caseworkers number???" and I said again "Nope - don't have it" and he said "I'm trying to fill out a job application " and I said "Good for you" and hung up. Nope ladies - I think this boat sailed.....USS Numbness is afloat. [/QUOTE]
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