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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 548112" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I'm glad to see that Jumper isn't with J anymore and have been for a while. When you described HIS parents to us/me?? Red flags went up all over the place, and wow did this kid play everyone about poor little him. Honestly I wasn't too sure about it - but usually when left in those types of environments? UBER CONTROLLED - the kids turn out to be the same, and stastistically this case didn't disappoint. He'll never change. He's 18 and he likes himself. He's become EXACTLY what his parents wanted him to be - and not a complete opposite either - so unless he has some major epiphany? He is what he is. </p><p></p><p>Jumper on the other hand - will in her own time need to stop feeling so sorry for him. I think LARGELY her relationship with J was based on pity. She was always trying to protect him from his evil parents, controlling Mother, horrible step parents...and the fact that she stood up to a lot of the things she believed in? May have given him an idea that he could too - but sadly - his fate was sealed before he met her. She just was a breath of fresh air in a stagnant home. They managed to ruin that for him too, but indirectly or directly (take your picture) so did he. </p><p></p><p>I thin kthe what and how of WHEN women get smart about horirble men they date is based on balances. If you never date a bad guy, and then you date a really good one? You may never know what was bad and what was good. And if you date a really bad one, and you're fresh off the farm? YOu may just get inhaled into his world of gloom and doom, and controlling behaviors. Jumper was very lucky to have you P - because when you saw signs - you made mention of it - and gave her food for thought. She's a smart girl - she figured THAT out - and she'll figure this out too. Time is about the only thing that is going to make her sit back and go "OMG I am Soooooooo tired of his (insert whatever) I wish he'd stop." and then? It will - because SHE says it needs to. OR because she meets a nice guy - closer in age - and at this point for her mental age vs a boy - since they're about 3 years behind girls (chuckling) I think she could probably date another guy a little older but I'd say no more than 1.5 years. AND NEVER without a chapperone. (See I have this granddaughter now I ......well my list is so long I ran out of 15/15 pages on text to Mommy of what Addison can and can't do) hahaha. Starting with boys, piercings, tattoos, guages, smoking, drinking, cursing......yeah my list was SO long K said she would print it out.......I said never mind - I have it in a story book .....you can read it to her EVERY SINGLE night. - she laughed.....then I laughed because she RALLY doesn't know me. LOL. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there MOm..........Our beautiful girl.....? Student body this year - I vote for PRESIDENT JUMPER. </p><p></p><p>Hugs & Love </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 548112, member: 4964"] I'm glad to see that Jumper isn't with J anymore and have been for a while. When you described HIS parents to us/me?? Red flags went up all over the place, and wow did this kid play everyone about poor little him. Honestly I wasn't too sure about it - but usually when left in those types of environments? UBER CONTROLLED - the kids turn out to be the same, and stastistically this case didn't disappoint. He'll never change. He's 18 and he likes himself. He's become EXACTLY what his parents wanted him to be - and not a complete opposite either - so unless he has some major epiphany? He is what he is. Jumper on the other hand - will in her own time need to stop feeling so sorry for him. I think LARGELY her relationship with J was based on pity. She was always trying to protect him from his evil parents, controlling Mother, horrible step parents...and the fact that she stood up to a lot of the things she believed in? May have given him an idea that he could too - but sadly - his fate was sealed before he met her. She just was a breath of fresh air in a stagnant home. They managed to ruin that for him too, but indirectly or directly (take your picture) so did he. I thin kthe what and how of WHEN women get smart about horirble men they date is based on balances. If you never date a bad guy, and then you date a really good one? You may never know what was bad and what was good. And if you date a really bad one, and you're fresh off the farm? YOu may just get inhaled into his world of gloom and doom, and controlling behaviors. Jumper was very lucky to have you P - because when you saw signs - you made mention of it - and gave her food for thought. She's a smart girl - she figured THAT out - and she'll figure this out too. Time is about the only thing that is going to make her sit back and go "OMG I am Soooooooo tired of his (insert whatever) I wish he'd stop." and then? It will - because SHE says it needs to. OR because she meets a nice guy - closer in age - and at this point for her mental age vs a boy - since they're about 3 years behind girls (chuckling) I think she could probably date another guy a little older but I'd say no more than 1.5 years. AND NEVER without a chapperone. (See I have this granddaughter now I ......well my list is so long I ran out of 15/15 pages on text to Mommy of what Addison can and can't do) hahaha. Starting with boys, piercings, tattoos, guages, smoking, drinking, cursing......yeah my list was SO long K said she would print it out.......I said never mind - I have it in a story book .....you can read it to her EVERY SINGLE night. - she laughed.....then I laughed because she RALLY doesn't know me. LOL. Hang in there MOm..........Our beautiful girl.....? Student body this year - I vote for PRESIDENT JUMPER. Hugs & Love Star [/QUOTE]
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