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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 548249" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>No. She is having trouble letting go of him, even though he isn't pleasant. Now *I* could get involved and write him or his nutty parents a letter at college and tell him/them to either defriend her and never text her again or I will go to the cops. There is a silly law in Wisconsin in which an eighteen year old boy is not allowed to even kiss an underage girl or he can be tapped as a sexual predator. Needless to say, it is a law that is broken all the time and I don't believe in the law. But I have fantasies of writing him a letter just to scare him away from her because I CAN press charges. He DID kiss her and he IS texting her and I, his mother, don't want him to do so.</p><p></p><p>But I think my trust with Jumper would go down the toilet. At 16 I always start to pull away a little bit if the teen is basically responsible (this was NOT the case with difficult child teen). Although I still make her tell me exactly where she is and exactly who she is with and she has to be home at specific times, I think it's over-the-top to make J stop texting her. After all, he is in Indiana. I sort of think that, sadly, I have to let this go and hope Jumper figures it out herself or that some college twit starts going after J...it's bound to happen. He's good looking and there are plenty of females there. If he makes the football squad, he will get a lot of unlucky females after him who don't know what he's like, but it will get his mind off of Jumper.</p><p></p><p>Jumper is seeing him for who he is, but it is just hard for her to make that final cut. She DOES seem much happier than when she first broke up with him and, God help me, I hope she isn't still begging him back. At any rate, even if she is, I am pretty sure he won't take her up on it. He thinks she's a cheater and he has called her worse such as skank, which she IS NOT. Ever want to strange somebody? LOLOL <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>I will never again give her MY permission to see him and will use the age card. Now if he changes his mind when he's in from Indiana and wants to see her, there is probably very little I can do to be sure she isn't seeing him. she can say she is going to a friend's house and he can go there too. However, lol, ALL her friends hate him. I have that in my favor. When she broke up with him and listed her new status as single, over 50 people gave her a "like" for the breakup on FB.</p><p></p><p>Why can't kids date more than one person at one time? WE used to date many guys at one time. In her school, that isn't done.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 548249, member: 1550"] No. She is having trouble letting go of him, even though he isn't pleasant. Now *I* could get involved and write him or his nutty parents a letter at college and tell him/them to either defriend her and never text her again or I will go to the cops. There is a silly law in Wisconsin in which an eighteen year old boy is not allowed to even kiss an underage girl or he can be tapped as a sexual predator. Needless to say, it is a law that is broken all the time and I don't believe in the law. But I have fantasies of writing him a letter just to scare him away from her because I CAN press charges. He DID kiss her and he IS texting her and I, his mother, don't want him to do so. But I think my trust with Jumper would go down the toilet. At 16 I always start to pull away a little bit if the teen is basically responsible (this was NOT the case with difficult child teen). Although I still make her tell me exactly where she is and exactly who she is with and she has to be home at specific times, I think it's over-the-top to make J stop texting her. After all, he is in Indiana. I sort of think that, sadly, I have to let this go and hope Jumper figures it out herself or that some college twit starts going after J...it's bound to happen. He's good looking and there are plenty of females there. If he makes the football squad, he will get a lot of unlucky females after him who don't know what he's like, but it will get his mind off of Jumper. Jumper is seeing him for who he is, but it is just hard for her to make that final cut. She DOES seem much happier than when she first broke up with him and, God help me, I hope she isn't still begging him back. At any rate, even if she is, I am pretty sure he won't take her up on it. He thinks she's a cheater and he has called her worse such as skank, which she IS NOT. Ever want to strange somebody? LOLOL :) I will never again give her MY permission to see him and will use the age card. Now if he changes his mind when he's in from Indiana and wants to see her, there is probably very little I can do to be sure she isn't seeing him. she can say she is going to a friend's house and he can go there too. However, lol, ALL her friends hate him. I have that in my favor. When she broke up with him and listed her new status as single, over 50 people gave her a "like" for the breakup on FB. Why can't kids date more than one person at one time? WE used to date many guys at one time. In her school, that isn't done. [/QUOTE]
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