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<blockquote data-quote="Masta" data-source="post: 124929" data-attributes="member: 308"><p><span style="color: #0f2637">daisylover: difficult child is on wic and on medicaid. </span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #0f2637">Ive told difficult child to get acquainted with her local bishop, he can help her with food, counseling and maybe cash, she says she set up an appointment for next Tuesday night. Of course my difficult child's husband already knows this, his family have been using/abusing their bishop for years.</span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #0f2637">difficult child and her hubby are not on any sort of food/financial assistance like food stamps etc. i tried to get difficult child on food stamps.. i took her down to the office a month ago but they made $9 over the cut off limit. if i didnt fill in the forms myself she would have never applied.</span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #0f2637">one thing about my difficult child is that unless someone makes her do something she wont do it herself.</span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #0f2637">i told difficult child today that if they become homeless we will not allow her husband to move in with us based on the fact he steals and lies. she understands. She doesn't know yet that she cannot move in either. We will tell her when she leaves him and asks to move in, and then I will tell her the best option for her is a womens shelter, because based on past experience with husband's family, they will harass her when she does leave him.</span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #0f2637">i just feel like we have 3 weeks left before this baby comes... and if she could somehow see the light and get rid of her loser husband things would be much easier for her in the long run. </span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #0f2637">i know she needs to come to that decision herself otherwise all the help in the world that we give her will be pointless, coz unless she makes up her mind herself that her hubby is a deadbeat and leaves him she will go right back to him.</span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #0f2637">i need to detach..... its so hard.. coz i hear her crying over the phone on a weekly basis... she can see my point of view but says she made her choices and a commitment by marrying him so she has to endure this ****. i have told her she can make new choices to change the situation she is in, but she says she cant think straight. My comment to that was if you can't think straight now wait till the baby is here you wont be able to think at all. I have also told her she may have made a commitment but her husband has not kept up his end of the bargain with the commitment by lying and texting girls behind her back. </span></p><p></p><p><span style="color: #0f2637">It is so hard being difficult child's sounding board. I don't know how your mom did it daisylover. Under normal circumstances if difficult child wasn't pregnant I would let her deal with her own problems but since there is a baby in the mix my first reaction is to get my difficult child out of this mess.</span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Masta, post: 124929, member: 308"] [COLOR=#0f2637]daisylover: difficult child is on wic and on medicaid. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0f2637]Ive told difficult child to get acquainted with her local bishop, he can help her with food, counseling and maybe cash, she says she set up an appointment for next Tuesday night. Of course my difficult child's husband already knows this, his family have been using/abusing their bishop for years.[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0f2637]difficult child and her hubby are not on any sort of food/financial assistance like food stamps etc. i tried to get difficult child on food stamps.. i took her down to the office a month ago but they made $9 over the cut off limit. if i didnt fill in the forms myself she would have never applied.[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0f2637]one thing about my difficult child is that unless someone makes her do something she wont do it herself.[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0f2637]i told difficult child today that if they become homeless we will not allow her husband to move in with us based on the fact he steals and lies. she understands. She doesn't know yet that she cannot move in either. We will tell her when she leaves him and asks to move in, and then I will tell her the best option for her is a womens shelter, because based on past experience with husband's family, they will harass her when she does leave him.[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0f2637]i just feel like we have 3 weeks left before this baby comes... and if she could somehow see the light and get rid of her loser husband things would be much easier for her in the long run. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0f2637]i know she needs to come to that decision herself otherwise all the help in the world that we give her will be pointless, coz unless she makes up her mind herself that her hubby is a deadbeat and leaves him she will go right back to him.[/COLOR] [COLOR=#0f2637]i need to detach..... its so hard.. coz i hear her crying over the phone on a weekly basis... she can see my point of view but says she made her choices and a commitment by marrying him so she has to endure this ****. i have told her she can make new choices to change the situation she is in, but she says she cant think straight. My comment to that was if you can't think straight now wait till the baby is here you wont be able to think at all. I have also told her she may have made a commitment but her husband has not kept up his end of the bargain with the commitment by lying and texting girls behind her back. [/COLOR] [COLOR=#0f2637]It is so hard being difficult child's sounding board. I don't know how your mom did it daisylover. Under normal circumstances if difficult child wasn't pregnant I would let her deal with her own problems but since there is a baby in the mix my first reaction is to get my difficult child out of this mess.[/COLOR] [/QUOTE]
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