Hi all. Since we kicked our son out the last time for using he's been working and living with his girlfriend. He comes over for holidays, birthdays or whenever we invite him. Sometimes he comes over to do laundry, but lately he must be doing it elsewhere. I encouraged his dad to spend time with him and they recently had a great time deep sea fishing, both were very happy. However, he looks extremely thin again and that always makes me think he's using. We asked him and he said he isn't. But we also found out that he is hanging with his old friend who got him started on heroin. This friend was supposed to be in treatment but looks like he left. So I'm not feeling good about things. I'm wondering if he is becoming a functioning heroin user. Because he's working, his girlfriend has no idea, he's just going through life. He is supposed to be saving for a better car, but doesn't have money saved and he's not paying rent. (makes me think he's spending his money on drugs) My and my husbands biggest concern is that he will eventually get swallowed up by the addiction and be sick and of couse we worry about him dying!!!!! I don't know if we are handling this right, but we are just acting like nothings going on. Kinda like detaching but still keeping contact. Now, I don't have proof, but his thin body, sure looks like it did when he was using. Maybe this is how it's going to be until he finally quits on his own. I don't know. He won't be honest so we just give him love, tell him we will support him getting help, and let him live his life. We don't give him any money or anything. Just food when he's home and love. His future does not look promising at this point.